Posted December 09, 2015
Shadowstalker16: I've seen the exact opposite. I've seen many South Indians look down on North Indians and none of the North Indian people I met talked about my lack of knowledge in Hindi.
I guess you've had the pleasure of meeting with the minority then, where I live I've seen many of them since my childhood and 99% of them fit the description I gave above and the rest are exceptions. These 1% are nice people but when we are talking about traits I guess traits of majority gets precedence. From what I understand, the more they are in numbers the bolder they become and start being asses to south Indians. Back when I was in college there was this guy who was a North Indian who used to hit my door at 4 AM and shout "Mera Bharat Mahan", to this day I never understood what his problem was.
Shadowstalker16: Also, I've always felt groups and social interactions are very different. In Kerala you don't interact with the public in general without a group of friends, and in many cases, people just don't speak at all until they see someone they know. I've seen people wander around a bus stand for 5+ minutes until asking for directions, but they'll be bubbling a soon as they have someone they know with them. I've also seen very different interactions between rickshaw drivers. In Kerala they just park on a line and talk to each other until someone shows up to hire them and always the first parked rickshaw will get the passenger. Like, if you ask someone at the back of the line they'll point to you to go to the front. While I've visited Karnataka, I haven't yet seen the drivers fight over who gets the passenger. Kinda weird. How is it where you live?
I have been to Karnataka and they were actually pretty friendly people, and gave me directions whenever I was lost. That Rickshaw fighting thing is the effect of rapid growth i.e. in cities which are growing slowly there's always a trickle of drivers coming in and they are pretty well connected with unions and stuff. Once rapid growth sets in there's too many new people coming in for them to keep track of and pretty soon it's every group for itself. (mostly a locality thing) Over here they are generally united and rarely fight over customers.