Martek: Yes! I've always been bemused by the "he's a total ass but he's good at what he does' argument. Doesn't sway me the slightest. The so-called "less qualified but more friendly one" is typically only slightly less-qualified, and a lot more friendly, IME. I'll take them any day (well - would and did - since I'm retired now).
JMich: So if demeanor is more important than qualifications, why should I care if the guy that can't copy paste something is the world's greatest survival expert? I should care if he's the world's friendliest person, yet your argument was that I should care because of what skills he may have. Thus why I gave the skills example.
Either you're trying to bait me into a bullshit argument; or you just don't get it..
You're trying a simplistic demeanor == qualifications argument:
If qualifications = 10 then demeanor = 0
Or:
If qualifications = 8 then demeanor = 2
Or:
If qualifications = 2 then demeanor = 8
Or:
If qualifications = 0 then demeanor = 10
That's where you're trying to go (or baiting to get me to go).
It's just not like that - and not worth long drawn out debate. I posted my opinion - perhaps you disagree (don't really know - just see your debate and 'draw-me-out' attempts here - but not your position). Don't get all pseudo-mathematic about it (it's not a zero-sum thing).