Sanjuro: Also, yes, most of the tzars were closely tied to Europeans with family bonds, but we don't have tzars anymore and can choose whatever path suits us most.
immi101: you really think it's just the tzars?
Just look at the millions of russian or people with russian roots who live in (mostly eastern) europe. Then there is all the economic relationships. You have to close your eyes _really_ hard to deny the ties between russia and europe.
If everybody would just stop drawing up lines and pretending we have nothing do with each other .... *sigh*
The only relationship you could actually cut is the political one. Everything else, cultural connections, historical connections,families, friends, ... will all still be there.
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Man, Russians live everywhere, as do Chinese, Indians, Negr... whatever you call those people in your country. Still I wouldn't say that China has a lot of cultural connections with Germany or India with Brit... (OK, bad example, let me change that to "Africa with Russia") and let's not even get started with Jews. :-)
So I wouldn't say it's about who lives where. Economic relationships? In modern world almost everyone is (or can potentially be) connected with everyone else (except those who pissed Wash-ton - until recently). So yeah, we do business and in the process have some influence on each other, but still... Most of the European countries are just that - partners. Political, economical, military or otherwise. Maybe that's enough for you to call us one big family, I don't know.
Wanna know with whom we have strong cultural, historical and other ties? Belorussia, Ukraine (or, well,
had until someone from Grey House decided that it needs more democracy and a coup), Serbia (can't say about everyone, but many Russians (myself included) feel guilty that we couldn't prevent the sacking of Yugoslavia; yes, yes, we had a ton of problems, Boris Yeltsyn for president and a deep crisis, I know. Hell, I wasn't even old enough to be able to do anything about it! Still, I feel as though we failed them). Finland, probably, we visit each other a lot, have a common history and stuff. Maybe Greece, to a lesser degree. Ex-USSR republics, but not all of those. Then there are the countries of BRICS. I'll give it some more thought in the morning, when I'm not that sleepy.
To make it appear as if I'm staying on topic: there's an old picture titled "
what a national border between Russia and Ukraine should be like". Maybe someday, when all this madness ends, it will regain its actuality.