Posted October 01, 2014
htown1980: For me personally, I don't see sexual objectification of men to be a significant issue. That may well be because no girl with close to reasonable vision would sexually objectify me.
Klumpen0815: Be happy about it, it's nothing nice. I've been objectified more than once and although it might look nice from far away, it's not a nice experience, because you get treated without any respect in a first seemingly nice way = lied to, because the person on the other side only wants to reach a certain goal.
I pity women as well as men that have this problem more often than me, although I really don't understand, why many people do not seem to have any problem with it, probably because it goes both ways all the time. The capitalistic mindset makes people only see the personal benefits/profits for themselves in each other rather than the other person as... well... a person.
htown1980: For me personally, I feel like men's rights issues should focus on suicide, education (particularly lower school), violence and parental rights are the important issues.
Klumpen0815: Woah, we finally aggree. Although of course I think that quotas are the biggest open discrimination of men today, you just mentioned the results of all the steady silent discriminations people (including the victims) rarely talk about.
HiPhish: But what if the reason the men are getting paid more is because they have less of a lunch break? Your view is too short-sighted. By your logic you could say that white supremacists are fighting for equality for "white" people. Thy just have to rename themselves to white equalists. (BTW, if calling Asian people "yellow" is racists, then calling European people "white" is racists too, since both terms have the same origin - and yes, it has nothing to do with the discussion)
I feel you may have missed my point. Maybe it was not well made. Why should you get a higher hourly rate because you have a shorter lunch break? That doesn't make sense to me. You are doing exactly the same work when you are working, the rate should be the same.
I think white supremacists do think they are fighting for equality for white people.
HiPhish: You don't have to take every issue in consideration, but you do have to look into connections. What if in a year or two the male suicide rate in California jumps up because of women making life hell by threatening men with rape accusations based on the recently passed law? You see how one side can affect the other?
Great point. So people who are worried about the suicide rates of men in California, and who have some evidence that it is related to threats of false rape accusations (really, that's your example?) can advocate a change to that law. Meanwhile, people who want to advocate the legalisation of weed can deal with that.
People who want to advocate for some women's issue in California can do that as well.
People who want to legalise same sex marriage can deal with that.
Everyone can advocate for whatever issue they want.
Post edited October 01, 2014 by htown1980