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Fever_Discordia: Yes but I was talking about taking greater care to ensure that we ARE just letting children choose what they like and not 'encouraging X to do Y' in subtle ways that we might not even be fully aware of and that includes parents, corporate advertising and society as a whole.
As a social experiment, I mean, I'm not in favor of draconian new laws or anything, but it seems worth investigating...
At the engineering campus i go, ask any of the guys if they want more or less girls doing this study. 95% will say more.

Ask gamers if they want more or less girls in gaming, again many will say more.

HOWEVER, i know that girls tend to look down on gaming girls, in my high schools when a girl said they wanted to study science or engineering the other girls said thing like "really, something that lame" "sound extremely boring" etc.


and yet, in all cases, who is blamed? Guys. All those things are our fault.

(and if barbie makes girls insecure, why didn't He-man make boys depressed? why don't boys seem to have existential crisis over not having G.I. Joes skills? And for that matter, why do i hear of so very few girls around me actually having an actual complex over barbie etc?)
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Fever_Discordia: Yes but I was talking about taking greater care to ensure that we ARE just letting children choose what they like and not 'encouraging X to do Y' in subtle ways that we might not even be fully aware of and that includes parents, corporate advertising and society as a whole.
As a social experiment, I mean, I'm not in favor of draconian new laws or anything, but it seems worth investigating...
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dragonbeast: At the engineering campus i go, ask any of the guys if they want more or less girls doing this study. 95% will say more.

Ask gamers if they want more or less girls in gaming, again many will say more.

HOWEVER, i know that girls tend to look down on gaming girls, in my high schools when a girl said they wanted to study science or engineering the other girls said thing like "really, something that lame" "sound extremely boring" etc.

and yet, in all cases, who is blamed? Guys. All those things are our fault.

(and if barbie makes girls insecure, why didn't He-man make boys depressed? why don't boys seem to have existential crisis over not having G.I. Joes skills? And for that matter, why do i hear of so very few girls around me actually having an actual complex over barbie etc?)
It's true girls do get an awful lot of peer pressure from other girls, I'm not sure what could be done about that though - direct adult intervention in youth culture seems like a recipe for disaster

In gaming, the general perception of #gamersgate is of guys reacting to women devs and critics of computer games, but even if you point out Zoe and Anita's flaws personally I'll remind you that before this whole GG thing blew up, there was a 'Fake Geek Girl' name calling thing boiling under
http://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2013/01/16
We've been talking about girl gamers receiving abuse, the amount of potential girl gamers that don't become gamers due to peer pressure is a separate issue but IS an issue, yeah

With STEM jobs we were talking about the rights and wrongs of women being artificially encouraged to enter those fields, I'm not sure where blame comes in, although I've probably just forgotten, to be fair...
Post edited April 27, 2015 by Fever_Discordia
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Fever_Discordia: Yes but I was talking about taking greater care to ensure that we ARE just letting children choose what they like and not 'encouraging X to do Y' in subtle ways that we might not even be fully aware of and that includes parents, corporate advertising and society as a whole.
As a social experiment, I mean, I'm not in favor of draconian new laws or anything, but it seems worth investigating...
So, is it your opinion that gender identity is learned or is it hardwired from birth?
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Fever_Discordia: Yes but I was talking about taking greater care to ensure that we ARE just letting children choose what they like and not 'encouraging X to do Y' in subtle ways that we might not even be fully aware of and that includes parents, corporate advertising and society as a whole.
As a social experiment, I mean, I'm not in favor of draconian new laws or anything, but it seems worth investigating...
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tremere110: So, is it your opinion that gender identity is learned or is it hardwired from birth?
I think it's a bit of both but to what degree it's nature or nurture no-one really knows
You'd think the innate parts for girls would be being attracted to guys and the motherly instinct towards children, it seems to me that a disinterest in the STEM fields is much less likely to be innate but I don't think anyone really knows for sure and, as I say, it's more a tendency.
But then, some girls aren't attracted to guys and some girls aren't at all motherly so maybe STEM interested girls are similar outliers? We just don't, in my opinion, know one way or the other but it would be useful to try to find out
(I'm not suggesting that those 3 outlying group are in any way connected, either BTW)
Post edited April 27, 2015 by Fever_Discordia
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Fever_Discordia: Whoa, OK, I specifically meant HiPhish's comment that 'positive gender discrimination' was a scam but if you see everything you've argued against in the entire thread as one big conspiracy of which this is a tiny part then.. Wow, OK I guess I can see where that mindset comes from, I wasn't really prepared for that though...
There is no such thing as positive discrimination. Whatever is positive for someone is negative for someone else. It's just as stupid as "reverse racism". It either is discriminatory or it isn't.

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Fever_Discordia: So I guess I'm saying that even if it turns out to be generally true that 'women don't like STEM jobs' we have to be aware that it doesn't mean that there are specific women who are going to be really good and into them, but we can't even get to that point without trying a few things first, I'm more in favor in examining nurture rather than giving the end product an artificial leg-up though, personally, I'll give you that.
Yes, there are always people outside the norm and that's fine, just don't hinder them and things will work out.

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Fever_Discordia: Yes but I was talking about taking greater care to ensure that we ARE just letting children choose what they like and not 'encouraging X to do Y' in subtle ways that we might not even be fully aware of and that includes parents, corporate advertising and society as a whole.
As a social experiment, I mean, I'm not in favor of draconian new laws or anything, but it seems worth investigating...
And what is your suggestion? If parents don't want to let their boy play with Barbie are you going to call child services? And of course pink aisles exist, similar toys are grouped together, so just like you will find all sorts of balls next to each other among sports toys and board games among board games, so will you find dolls among dolls. Every store does it for every product category.
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Fever_Discordia: I think it's a bit of both but to what degree it's nature or nurture no-one really knows
You'd think the innate parts for girls would be being attracted to guys and the motherly instinct towards children, it seems to me that a disinterest in the STEM fields is much less likely to be innate but I don't think anyone really knows for sure and, as I say, it's more a tendency.
But then, some girls aren't attracted to guys and some girls aren't at all motherly so maybe STEM interested girls are similar outliers? We just don't, in my opinion, know one way or the other but it would be useful to try to find out
(I'm not suggesting that those 3 outlying group are in any way connected, either BTW)
Just to throw in a thought that is often forgotten:
I think one of the absolute main reasons for so many "girly girls" is that fathers are very often excluded from upbringing in modern western society. The amount of mothers that have become their child because of irresponsible actions in the first place and either don't know or don't care for the father is very high in my area and in many other big cities too. The fact, that fathers always have a hard time getting to see their kids after a divorce/break-up and are usually only allowed every two weeks or less (while having to pay most for it of course) isn't helping either.

More or less every parent wants to see more of himself in the kid and will influence it in this direction, so I'm really not surprised to see all those girls today with a complete lack of genuine interest in politics, science, etc... and other stuff that was a male domain in the last two generations. Encouraging them by discriminating men isn't even influencing the percentages as much as the discriminators would like, so the whole system is wrong in every way.
Post edited April 27, 2015 by Klumpen0815
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Are we sure this is a 'Gamergate News' thread and not a 'rampant sexism and anti-feminism' thread?
Just thought I'd check.
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Fever_Discordia: Whoa, OK, I specifically meant HiPhish's comment that 'positive gender discrimination' was a scam but if you see everything you've argued against in the entire thread as one big conspiracy of which this is a tiny part then.. Wow, OK I guess I can see where that mindset comes from, I wasn't really prepared for that though...
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HiPhish: There is no such thing as positive discrimination. Whatever is positive for someone is negative for someone else. It's just as stupid as "reverse racism". It either is discriminatory or it isn't.

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Fever_Discordia: So I guess I'm saying that even if it turns out to be generally true that 'women don't like STEM jobs' we have to be aware that it doesn't mean that there are specific women who are going to be really good and into them, but we can't even get to that point without trying a few things first, I'm more in favor in examining nurture rather than giving the end product an artificial leg-up though, personally, I'll give you that.
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HiPhish: Yes, there are always people outside the norm and that's fine, just don't hinder them and things will work out.

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Fever_Discordia: Yes but I was talking about taking greater care to ensure that we ARE just letting children choose what they like and not 'encouraging X to do Y' in subtle ways that we might not even be fully aware of and that includes parents, corporate advertising and society as a whole.
As a social experiment, I mean, I'm not in favor of draconian new laws or anything, but it seems worth investigating...
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HiPhish: And what is your suggestion? If parents don't want to let their boy play with Barbie are you going to call child services? And of course pink aisles exist, similar toys are grouped together, so just like you will find all sorts of balls next to each other among sports toys and board games among board games, so will you find dolls among dolls. Every store does it for every product category.
I'm not talking about laws and interfering in people's lives but society is constantly changing and evolving, I'm sure we've all seen crazy sexist ads from the 50s that are good for LOLs for their sheen WTF factor such as:
http://www.buzzfeed.com/babymantis/sexism-in-30-vintage-ads-1opu
Now, no-one passed any laws about these ads or torn down any presses, no one cried 'censorship' but society has.. moved on
I'm not saying that it's inevitable that it will continue in a 'progressive', 'liberal' direction, the pendulum could well swing back the other way and things could become more 'conservative' but what I AM sure of is that attitudes will change one way or another and society will change, once more, with them
i'm just talking about the direction I think society might want to try going in

To get back to GG and Anita and all that, I know the what happened in Australia with Target hurts this argument but I think that this is what feminist critique of the arts is about too, rather than censorship and litigation
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Fever_Discordia: It's true girls do get an awful lot of peer pressure from other girls, I'm not sure what could be done about that though - direct adult intervention in youth culture seems like a recipe for disaster
Not automatically blaming males for that would probably be a decent start for feminists to regain credibility.

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Fever_Discordia: We've been talking about girl gamers receiving abuse, the amount of potential girl gamers that don't become gamers due to peer pressure is a separate issue but IS an issue, yeah
don't forget the girls scared out by the mass scare tactics by anita and sorts. And the fact that in many cases males recieve abuse too, and not all that is not nice is abuse or harassment. Large portions of it is random thrash talk (or sometimes role-play within the game)

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Fever_Discordia: I'll remind you that before this whole GG thing blew up, there was a 'Fake Geek Girl' name calling thing boiling under
http://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2013/01/16
the joke seems not to insult gamer girls as tycho points out that that is bad.Its far closer to ridiculing guys whining over fake gamegirls than the game girls. The punchline is not that the girl in question is indeed a fake gamer, but simply a fake girl. The girl did not say something like "zelda's green cap is cool", no it's simply not a living girl.
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SusurrusParadox: Are we sure this is a 'Gamergate News' thread and not a 'rampant sexism and anti-feminism' thread?
Just thought I'd check.
more like "gamergate news & discussion of linked elements"
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Fever_Discordia: It's true girls do get an awful lot of peer pressure from other girls, I'm not sure what could be done about that though - direct adult intervention in youth culture seems like a recipe for disaster
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dragonbeast: Not automatically blaming males for that would probably be a decent start for feminists to regain credibility.

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Fever_Discordia: We've been talking about girl gamers receiving abuse, the amount of potential girl gamers that don't become gamers due to peer pressure is a separate issue but IS an issue, yeah
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dragonbeast: don't forget the girls scared out by the mass scare tactics by anita and sorts. And the fact that in many cases males recieve abuse too, and not all that is not nice is abuse or harassment. Large portions of it is random thrash talk (or sometimes role-play within the game)

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Fever_Discordia: I'll remind you that before this whole GG thing blew up, there was a 'Fake Geek Girl' name calling thing boiling under
http://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2013/01/16
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dragonbeast: the joke seems not to insult gamer girls as tycho points out that that is bad.Its far closer to ridiculing guys whining over fake gamegirls than the game girls. The punchline is not that the girl in question is indeed a fake gamer, but simply a fake girl. The girl did not say something like "zelda's green cap is cool", no it's simply not a living girl.
Oh I wasn't pointing at Penny Arcade as an offender - I actually really like PA most of the time, I was just providing it as evidence and a reminder that 'Fake Gamer Girl' type name-calling was a thing and just pre-dates the entire GG debarcle
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SusurrusParadox: Are we sure this is a 'Gamergate News' thread and not a 'rampant sexism and anti-feminism' thread?
Just thought I'd check.
That depends. If you can interchange sexism with misogyny; then no. And if you feminism=females > males; then no as well. So judging by the meaning you attach to those words, this is in fact such a thread!
Also; Fever, why exactly did you ask me to prove antiGG is group think-driven hive and then ignore the reply??
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dragonbeast: At the engineering campus i go, ask any of the guys if they want more or less girls doing this study. 95% will say more.

Ask gamers if they want more or less girls in gaming, again many will say more.

HOWEVER, i know that girls tend to look down on gaming girls, in my high schools when a girl said they wanted to study science or engineering the other girls said thing like "really, something that lame" "sound extremely boring" etc.

and yet, in all cases, who is blamed? Guys. All those things are our fault.

(and if barbie makes girls insecure, why didn't He-man make boys depressed? why don't boys seem to have existential crisis over not having G.I. Joes skills? And for that matter, why do i hear of so very few girls around me actually having an actual complex over barbie etc?)
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Fever_Discordia: It's true girls do get an awful lot of peer pressure from other girls, I'm not sure what could be done about that though - direct adult intervention in youth culture seems like a recipe for disaster

In gaming, the general perception of #gamersgate is of guys reacting to women devs and critics of computer games, but even if you point out Zoe and Anita's flaws personally I'll remind you that before this whole GG thing blew up, there was a 'Fake Geek Girl' name calling thing boiling under
http://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2013/01/16
We've been talking about girl gamers receiving abuse, the amount of potential girl gamers that don't become gamers due to peer pressure is a separate issue but IS an issue, yeah

With STEM jobs we were talking about the rights and wrongs of women being artificially encouraged to enter those fields, I'm not sure where blame comes in, although I've probably just forgotten, to be fair...
Here's my two cents on the whole Fake Geek Girl phenomenon. It's not just girls who get struck with the Fake Geek stick, it's guys too, but I think the main difference is that men don't tend to take those kinds of things to heart, whereas girls ARE more likely to react emotionally and take it personally, or to read too much into it. Heck, it was even parodied in an episode of Family Guy, with Peter and the Nudist Dad having a Kiss trivia throw down. It's realistically no different, but I think the amount of coverage and/or likelihood for someone to scream about misogyny being the root would come from an ACTUAL fake geek girl. That's without even considering the troll element.
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SusurrusParadox: Are we sure this is a 'Gamergate News' thread and not a 'rampant sexism and anti-feminism' thread?
Just thought I'd check.
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Shadowstalker16: That depends. If you can interchange sexism with misogyny; then no. And if you feminism=females > males; then no as well. So judging by the meaning you attach to those words, this is in fact such a thread!
Also; Fever, why exactly did you ask me to prove antiGG is group think-driven hive and then ignore the reply??
Honestly it had been a long week and I was feeling pretty tired on Friday, I started reading your reply but you started using maths symbols instead of words and other people had replied to other posts and I wandered off, I meant to come back to it later but I didn't manage to, over the weekend, in the end

Sorry about that, I know it can be frustrating when you put effort into reply and they get ignored, I've gone back and read it now though, after the initial shaky start, you did put a very good case together for group think within the anti-GG / feminist camp that's very hard to argue with

Also I'd not really read a proper description / definition of group-think before so that was interesting too

However

Where I think you failed was that you didn't put up much of a case for the GG / ant-feminist side not operating on group-think itself

You seemed to being going back to this argument that Brianna Wu was branded a traitor by team fem but Brad Wardell wasn't similarly branded by team GG but I maintain that this is because Wu is the individual while Wardell represents Stardock -
It's analogous to when, during the cold war, Russian agents defected to the west - the Russian would want those agents dead while the handlers that brought those spies it would be regarded as national heroes but the same was true when Americans defected the other way - Of course you didn't turn on Wardell, he took our (tertiary) queen!
Imagine if it wasn't Wu in talks with Stardock but TB in talks with Kotaku or Gamesutra or one of those sites that caused the #GG backlash in the first place - who do you think would be calling who a traitor then?

I see a group who felt under threat by a female invasion, of things like feminist critique when applied to computer games and reacted like a group under threat with personal attacks, shaming and death threats
Then was in denial that any members of the group would DO such a thing so, of course, the females in question must be doing it to themselves with fake accounts
Then attacked by a THIRD group of group-thinkers - the journalists - who had convinced themselves that they had their audience completely in their thrall and could therefore say whatever divisive thing they wanted, banded together, as a group behind the #GG banner for defense
Then the whole 'Shafer's joke is offensive to minorities but the 'censored' joke from Pillars was just LOLs and people should lighten up' double standard, which, yeah, potentially cuts both ways for people on the other side that think the opposite but, as I say, I'm not denying the group-think over here!
I suspect that even the 'Our side is logic and reason - their side is emotion and group-think' rhetoric is the party-line group-think in itself
How messed up if that? you say 'you guys are a bunch of group-thinker' to team fem and we have to go 'errr.. sure I guess you're right' But then, when we go 'But so are you guys' you don't believe it because the group-think propaganda you're buying into is telling you that your side doesn't DO group-think!
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Fever_Discordia: I see a group who felt under threat by a female invasion
Wut? Hell no! How do you get to this conclusion? The vast majority of gamers definitely want more women sharing their hobby, the problem are political correct fascists that are not even gamers in most cases, it isn't even important that most of those seem to be female for some reason (which in most cases may be a hate-mob created by a certain very popular branch of current feminism people like to call neo-feminism).

Gimme more gamer girls!
(Preferably not Steam or XBone/PS4 fans, but whatever).
Post edited April 29, 2015 by Klumpen0815
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Shadowstalker16: That depends. If you can interchange sexism with misogyny; then no. And if you feminism=females > males; then no as well. So judging by the meaning you attach to those words, this is in fact such a thread!
Also; Fever, why exactly did you ask me to prove antiGG is group think-driven hive and then ignore the reply??
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Fever_Discordia: Honestly it had been a long week and I was feeling pretty tired on Friday, I started reading your reply but you started using maths symbols instead of words and other people had replied to other posts and I wandered off, I meant to come back to it later but I didn't manage to, over the weekend, in the end

Sorry about that, I know it can be frustrating when you put effort into reply and they get ignored, I've gone back and read it now though, after the initial shaky start, you did put a very good case together for group think within the anti-GG / feminist camp that's very hard to argue with

Also I'd not really read a proper description / definition of group-think before so that was interesting too

However

Where I think you failed was that you didn't put up much of a case for the GG / ant-feminist side not operating on group-think itself

You seemed to being going back to this argument that Brianna Wu was branded a traitor by team fem but Brad Wardell wasn't similarly branded by team GG but I maintain that this is because Wu is the individual while Wardell represents Stardock -
It's analogous to when, during the cold war, Russian agents defected to the west - the Russian would want those agents dead while the handlers that brought those spies it would be regarded as national heroes but the same was true when Americans defected the other way - Of course you didn't turn on Wardell, he took our (tertiary) queen!
Imagine if it wasn't Wu in talks with Stardock but TB in talks with Kotaku or Gamesutra or one of those sites that caused the #GG backlash in the first place - who do you think would be calling who a traitor then?

I see a group who felt under threat by a female invasion, of things like feminist critique when applied to computer games and reacted like a group under threat with personal attacks, shaming and death threats
Then was in denial that any members of the group would DO such a thing so, of course, the females in question must be doing it to themselves with fake accounts
Then attacked by a THIRD group of group-thinkers - the journalists - who had convinced themselves that they had their audience completely in their thrall and could therefore say whatever divisive thing they wanted, banded together, as a group behind the #GG banner for defense
Then the whole 'Shafer's joke is offensive to minorities but the 'censored' joke from Pillars was just LOLs and people should lighten up' double standard, which, yeah, potentially cuts both ways for people on the other side that think the opposite but, as I say, I'm not denying the group-think over here!
I suspect that even the 'Our side is logic and reason - their side is emotion and group-think' rhetoric is the party-line group-think in itself
How messed up if that? you say 'you guys are a bunch of group-thinker' to team fem and we have to go 'errr.. sure I guess you're right' But then, when we go 'But so are you guys' you don't believe it because the group-think propaganda you're buying into is telling you that your side doesn't DO group-think!
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