cjrgreen: Everybody has various mental, er, "issues". If normal is perfect, then nobody's normal. Whether these rise to the level of "disorders" or being "crazy" depends on how badly you are hurt by them. Sometimes others can see that in you a lot better than you can see it yourself, but other times the treatment is worse than the problem. And the labels they give you are always demeaning and sometimes worse than the problem and the treatment together.
dmetras: Of course nobody's normal! There is no common denominator that can be drawn amongst us humans, besides the fact that we're human. It's that fact that makes it ridiculous for people to ridicule others because those other people are different! Everybody is different in some way. But, if we were perfect, i.e. without flaw... well, you can see where I'm going with this.
I just recently applied for DHSH benefits to get myself checked out mentally and physically. I've had severe (IMO, I've never been officially diagnosed) mental issues related to depression for most of my life. But it's only recently that I really stopped and evaluated myself. I've gotten to the point that I'm tired of trying to cope with anti-social, anxiety, and depression issues. Where as before, I could still force myself to co-exist with people and life around me, I found that I was increasingly withdrawing into a shell, and since I'm an online student and everything around me revolved around the internet, I stopped engaging in real life. I barely ever went outside (I'm trying to get better about that), I never left home unless I absolutely had to, and I tried to avoid even family.
I realized I had to try and fight this if I wanted any kind of future aside from basically committing a slow form of suicide, but when I tried to get some type of treatment plan worked out, I was told by our local (I live in a small town, which doesn't help) mental facility that they had no more outreach for low income (or no income) plans, and I'd have to pay upfront for treatment, with money I don't have. After I mentally crashed for awhile, I finally bit the bullet and tried for state aid.
If I don't get some type of help, even counseling without pills, I don't know what'll happen. It's not that I'm suicidal, but I'm just mentally
exhausted from fighting myself on the littlest things, like "I need to get something to eat"/"I'm hungry...but that takes so much effort to get up and eat anything. It's not worth the trouble"
I didn't mean to hijack the thread with this. I just felt it was somewhat relevant to the discussion.