Johnmourby: I'm not sure what you're getting at here. I think rape scenes can be expectable if it isn't just there for shock. But the thing is it can be trivialised and that, to me, is wrong.
I'm trying to say that a lot of horror fiction stands on shocking the audience. If rape can be used to shock the audience and it does, good - it's not cheapening the matter, it's playing with expectations of the audience. I'm also trying to say that "cheapening the matter" is such a broad and personal perspective that using it as a general term against usage of a storytelling element tends to be bad - define, how does it cheapen the matter? If a person viewing horror movie sees rape and is shocked by seeing rape, is rape cheapened in his eyes? I don't think so, quite the contrary.
Let's take it further tho, where
can rape be used? Because, you see, there is rape and there is rape - some time ago, I was playing a mod to Neverwinter Nights which used a rape scene straight off the bat. The female who wrote it made sure to include all the politically correct bits - say it was horrible for the PC and whatnot - nonetheless, it was written in an extremely suggestive and ... Detailed manner. Actually, let's take it even further - porn movies. Yes, porn's media too. Not sure about art, but whatever, not the point. Rape seems to be extremely common female fantasy, very likely far more common than a male fantasy of raping a female. I won't go into psychology of the thing because I have only put a small amount of research into the matter, nonetheless, I find rape porn extremely gross and distasteful. Well, most of females I have known in my life sure didn't (I should probably point out that I gravitate towards strong, dominant women, my knowledge is probably slightly skewed). In other words, is it wrong that a form of art could show a very common fantasy? Is it triviliazing the matter, or is it mirroring realities around us? As far as I'm concerned, all art should be the latter - it should reflect society, both its reality and its dreams. And if it's making someone uncomfortable? That's good, because it'll make said someone think, research, discuss and find out why. Or it'll just make said someone a judgemental bastard. *Sigh*, who am I kidding, the latter happens a lot more.