kohlrak: ... While we know that trauma leads to certain behaviors, ultimately which behavior is adopted is chosen by the individual, which makes alot of people unhappy, 'cause they want to be able to blame their behaviors on others,...
toxicTom: It's not that simple. I've seen it often enough that women who grew up with an abusive father often end up in abusive relationship themselves, and also that men who grew up with Uber-mothers end up with women who are mother-replacements...
There are also neurologists who claim that there is no "free will" at all, that choice is an illusion created by out brain, and in fact that all decisions are already made subconsciously and the conscience just comes up with justifications. While I don't believe that, these scientists and their theory have yet to be disproved.
IIRC, we typically accept unfalsifiable claims as false on premise that they can't be tested. I would argue that nurture plays a bigger part than nature (genetics vs upbringing debate), but i'm plenty willing to accept that just because we make choices doesn't mean we are more likely to make different ones. I have a pretty interesting study that i'd be happy to exchange with you in private, if you want, as well as my own theory on why the results could be nurture instead of exclusively nature, but we can't really prove this without someone with alot of money being willing to make a huge study on a majorly controversial subject, that's so controversial that people even the new york times backs off of the results when it supports lefty causes.
kohlrak: ...but blaming one person's behavior on someone else's behavior simply leads to a long list of pointing fingers while the world never improves.
I kind of agree with that. On the other hand it's sometimes really important to realize where our own harmful behaviour comes from - for the purpose of introspection and healing. That's of course not the same as "blaming" and has nothing to with pointing fingers at all.
In the end there is the one truth of all psychotherapists: "You can't change the others, you can only change yourself.". This wisdom seems to have gotten lost though, since all I see is people demanding of other people to change while never ever looking into the mirror.
Well... what I can do is to try to make it better.
Precisely. I think the message is intentionally lost, though: when i try to point it out i instantly become the devil. How many women i've met with daddy issues, and i ask the question "if you never talked to your father about this, how do you know your mother was telling the truth?" And, on top of that, i can list reasons why a father would intentionally make himself out to appear to be the bad guy. But dare say as much, and you're evil and can't possibly know anything on the topic, despite their admission that they don't know anything that you don't, and you might have more experiences with such cases, but they can't admit that, for their worldview would be crushed as well as their reasoning for man hating, father hating, or whatever, thus making themselves bad people, too.
toxicTom: Well to disprove it, you would need to recreate the exact same choice situation several times (probably down to the last molecule regarding the brain). Then, if in any one of these exact same situations the test person makes a different decision - that would be free will and the theory disproved. Pretty unrealistic...
Scientific theories can't be "proven" as such. Every observation that confirms the theory substantiate, but a single failure either means it needs adjustment or it's bullshit altogether.
dtgreene: Actually, even if you could recreate the exact same situation, that still wouldn't be enough. If we assume the claim to be true (and if my claim is true, this doesn't lead to a contradiction), then it's reasonable to conclude that quantum mechanics is relevant to explaining the brain and the choices we make. It turns out, however, that quantum mechanics isn't deterministic; it only predicts probabilities of different outcomes. Hence, iven if you did recreate the exact same choice situation, it might still give different results, even if free will doesn't exist.
Hence, getting different results from the same situation is not enough to prove that free will exists.
Honestly, i think quantum physics is a method of goalpost moving for both the religious and secular to explain why we just haven't solved the debate yet. I'm still waiting to see practical application of quantum mechanics, outside of proposed applications and "we did it, but we ain't showin' you our device" applications.
Crosmando: Some whore cheated on her boyfriend and people got angry. So like everything bad in human history, from Eve to Helen of Troy, it was started by a woman.
BeatriceElysia: I remember discussion on local forum I always felt that wasn't relevant in the story. What came afterwards and how is gog part of this is what makes me wonder.
Other than that, "Did you just assumed their gender" was simply dumb twitter drama since on that picture there were clearly only guys and and there weren't any gender fluid persons either. I can't fanthom why did social justice warriors turn on that comment, especially since I firmly believe it wasn't started with any gamer.
Basically, people were outraged over the woman's game as well as it getting positive reviews simply because she slept with the guy, so these shitposters went into a frenzy harassing game news sources as well as Zoe herself. Some feminist opportunists took advantage of the controversy to try to focus on proving that video games are a source of toxic masculinity (Anita Sarkesian). Eventually people like Sargon of Akkad got into this and, largely, it became a proxy war over sex-negative feminism, even though it was really about gamers trusting certain promoters who made their opinion on special interest rather than actually properly reviewing games which they were expected to do.