tammerwhisk: [...]
Of the passages I've read in the best the surrounding context did little to redeem the text. Even tried asking some Muslims about it whether like other religions it's a language/translation thing, idiomatic thing, or whatever and all the one's I have spoken with have done is refer me to a bunch of stupid ass street interviews of some jackass going "Islam means peace" over and over to people on the street.
And truth be told your explanation of the adultry thing seems barbaric as fuck and has a potential for abuse (false testimony?).
I don't want to write an essay but I'll keep it brief: To understand the Abrahamic religions you need to keep two things in mind. One, the reader is a person who believes in an omnipotent creator who asks you to try your best to live in a certain way and will reward or punish you for your intentions and efforts in an eternal afterlife. This informs the second point: the wordly life is brief and we are not necessarily supposed to treat it like it is all that we will ever have. It isn't an arena where people are supposed to accomplish the most success and take the most personal freedoms. All three religions treat this life as a test to see who can stay a believer and be rewarded, and who will fall for other temptations and reject the creator.
A perfect "islamic" society isn't a blissful paradise where all of mankind's ills have been solved. Far from it, the world is a miserable and injust place filled with suffering and temptation. Islam isn't supposed to fix this (or conquer the world for that matter). A perfect islamic society only serves to make the individual more likely to do the things that will reward him in the next life, by eliminating unrepentant hedonistic elements from society if need be (in those few instances where execution is legal). Important point to remember: through all the scary verses you must remember that forgiveness and mercy are core islamic ideals, it always applies to how we deal with sinners.
Now, there are no actual islamic societies in the world today. Daesh/ISIS claims to be one, but they are really just a criminal empire that uses Islamic iconography to frame their selfish atrocities as worship. It is besides the point anyhow. Without an actual recognised islamic society, a caliphate, much of what is in the Qur'an is irrelevant, especially as it relates to crime and punishment. Individual muslims can not judge adulterers, apostates, idolaters and so on. What is relevant however are everything that pertains to the individual:
- Perform your prayers, perform your fasting, perform your alms giving, perform your pilgrimage, be generous, be kind, be patient, protect and stand up for the weak, help safe guard your personal belief in God, don't hurt, don't slander, don't steal, don't lie, don't kill others, don't kill yourself, marry only those that are permited as per the Qur'an, follow the examples for daily conduct as set by the Prophet. I could go on, but you get the idea, it is about the believer and not society or even the world.
Basically, "Try your best to live up to islamic ideals, every day of your life". It is also recognised in the Qur'an that we WILL FAIL because humans are flawed creatures, but fret not, you can always repent and try and do better tomorrow. Every muslim hopes that in the end they will die at a time where they have done more good than bad and that God will be merciful in judging them.
This is why I am personally convinced that 'being a good neighbour', 'respecting the law of the land' and 'standing up for the oppressed' means defending LGBTQ and womens' rights to a life in peace in this day and age. I am male, "white", straight and married. My personal interests are not threatened by the hetero-normative, secular and patriarchal society that I live in, so I can lend my support to other people's fights.
I don't agree with everything that people are doing, but if God is the most merciful and forgiving, I as a muslim believer must give them a chance as well. NO ONE is better off if we hate and kill each other.