BadDecissions: Could maybe, but I don't accept that you
should. So it's fine to have your character kill a kid, but not fine to show your character kill a kid? That seems like a completely arbitrary distinction to me, And in Australia, Planescape Torment got an M rating...
edit: And your comment about "how demon-y the demon could act on screen" really reinforces that you couldn't do something like Amnesia or Silent Hill at a teen rating without completely crippling it. Of course, if you don't like to play games like that, it's your decision, but I am a great fan of both games, and the genre in general.
Hm. I can see how that would seem to be an arbitrary distinction, but I'll try to explain it. This is hard for me to put into words on an internet forum really late in the day, so I hope this comes across clearly.
I didn't say the choice to kill the kid or the mother is a good choice or a choice I would choose to experience. I just said that it could be done in a T-rated game. It's not a quest I would take if it were in a game i was playing. I was simply responding to your point about not being able to do it in a T-rated game. And yeah, ratings are culture-dependant and imperfect. But that also applies to practically everything else.
Games are a way to do things I don't do in real life. Experience other places, other stories, etc. So when a game contains choices for non-realistic things that's acceptable. But I'm still the person making the choice, and I tend to make choices I would in real life, particularly as the game gets more realistic.
I believe that there are some behaviors and levels of detail that I don't need to experience, that people in general don't need to experience, and that video games are generally sensationalist when they shouldn't be. Graphic and sensationalist depictions of violence and sex aren't good, and when I experience them I impair my ability to live the way I should. Non-graphic / non-sensationalist is a lot better, because it doesn't have the same kind of impact.
Everyone gets to make their choice about what they want to experience as part of their entertainment, and this is mine. My choice doesn't work for everyone, but I believe it's right for me. I'm disappointed that a game I was really interested in probably won't wind up being something I get, but I'd be more disappointed if I did something I don't think is right.
I hope this clears things up a little for you. I'd be happy to take this to PM if you want to keep talking, but I think the thread's had about as much discussion of this as people want. :)
EDIT: Spelling, it's late, sometimes the words come out wrong.