For the record, I don't think its cool for men with erections to be standing naked next to little girls. But you didn't answer one of my questions though "where are all these public locker rooms where young girls are having showers without their parents?"

But maybe if you're not " ok with men using anything along with little girls, period. Or little boys, but that IS allowed..." then lets just stick with the toilet thing, rather than showers. It's too easy to jump around from one topic to another.

So is it correct that you are not ok with men and boys using the same toilets?

That's why I voice my concern wherever I can, and do not care if I'm made a social pariah, or whatever. I'll take it, if it means I can help even just a tiny little residual bit.

Good attitude, you shouldn't let yourself be silenced. And things like this toilet decree are so obviously insane, there has to be some pushback.
Parents shouldn't indulge every silly fancy of their children...children need parental guidance.

Children need to learn self-restraint...if every silly desire they come up with is immediately satisfied, they'll become spoilt, narcisstic monsters. Excessive egomaniacal individualism can be just as bad as or even worse than excessive collectivism/conformism.
Anyway, nice talking to you all, but I have to go now (have to go to bed). Bye all!

That's different & I will explain you why:

A father can safely enter the men's toilets with his son to protect him from other men until he's old enough to go by himself.

A mother can safely enter the women's toilets with her daughter to protect her from other women until she's old enough to go by herself.

A 14 year old boy has a chance against a grown man. A 14 year old girl DOES NOT. I don't care who they believe they are, the fact of the matter is, women's bodies are built differently from men's bodies & the man's weight advantage is too big for the girl to overcome.

THIS is called REALITY.

IF and WHEN the child grows old enough to CHOOSE - because it's their choice & it's all kinds of fucked up to "encourage" someone who shows no inclination to become transgender to do so - AND decides to transition to whatever they want, THEN that's another matter entirely that should be separated from this particular discussion.

I'm sure there's a way to give trans people - REAL trans people - their rights without taking away the rights of other people.

Is this so hard to comprehend?

Now is the bit where you disregard everything I just wrote & go back to transgender people's rights while not giving a shit about anyone else's.

Go!
Good answer. Tough love, encouraging self-sufficiency & grounding their whims on reality. That's how a child should be raised.

You are missing the issue of privilege. As (I assume) a cisgender person, you don't have to worry about being denied rights due to your gender identity; transgender people, on the other hand, do.

I sincerely hope you don't have any children; denying the child's right to pursue her interests or to have harmless fun is not healthy for the child.

I agree with zeogold. I understand the OP's concern but that does not mean he can bring emotions into the debate and start throwing insults at those he disagrees with.

Last I checked, legislation is being passed that will allow transgender people to use either bathrooms that they are comfortable with.
lol lol hahahaha. tinyE
I think Judas (one of the gog staff) got annoyed when someone made a thread about politics and Donald Trump on gog forums.

You seem to have a narrow view of gender. Is that why you "feel" you have to be a trans?

I wondered when I would be told to check my privileges. I'm not going to be cowed by your kind, friend. I know how you work & I can be louder than 20 of you carrying megaphones.

Again you twist my words. When did I ever say that?

No, I don't have children, but I am very active on the upbringing of my nieces & nephew, sometimes moreso than my brother, who gladly defers to my judgement.

I NEVER denied anything to the children, nor have I tried to steer them to do what *I* want, like so many people do. Self-sufficiency means that they get to choose what they want, and also that they have to get it themselves.

On this particular subject I could brag day & night how much of a difference they make from the other cowed, spoiled or timid children, how polite they are to whoever treats them with respect & how they'll easily embarrass on a battle of wits any grown up that tries to make a fool out of them, ever since they were 4.

But again, this is deviating from the topic.

Thank you for the opportunity, but let's get back to the REAL problem, shall we? The possibility that this law will help paedophiles & rapists a lot more than it will help the 0.3% of the population that has been using their correct toilets even before all this madness.

In the Meanwhile in Cologne thread I mentioned, Judas first gave out a warning, then another, then closed it after it got increasingly volatile and turned into a flat-out mudslinging contest.

Except that the law will not help those "paedohpiles" and rapists you're talking about. Such actions will remain just as (il)legal as they were before.

Hooray, let's start mudslinging this aswell. :D

Me first

*grabs mud*

That's the British spelling of the word.

I do hope that is the case, that this is not the part of the first few steps for a push to have paedophilia becoming socially acceptable.

I really hope I'm just being a loud-mouthed fool. I'm fine with that. I'd rather overreact on this issue only to have it turn out to be nothing than the other way around.

Will you stop using that word?
It's offensive.


This one is cute:
http://puu.sh/oZlsY/488eeb3cd9.png

I do wonder why people who never had that label, all of a sudden need to accept it just because someone came up with it.

And it's also very funny how the people that are relentlessly preaching equality are also the ones labelling everyone very neatly & pushing for more rights than anyone else, which isn't exactly the definition of equality, but what do I know?

I'm just a dumbass.

Brilliant. But I'm sure THAT will never happen. Where's the roll eyes smiley thingy?