Telika: It's not about feelings, it is about the immense embarassing stupidity of this term, and all the implicits of its usage. You should seriously consider starting to think about it.
monkeydelarge: How is it stupid? Just saying it's stupid is not good enough.
It is stupid the exact same way as other epithets used by ultraconservatives (the already mentionned "human-rightist", "third world-ist", "politically correct" or "bleeding heart", etc) to try to disqualify any discourse that push them back in the cave where they belong. It is a desperate admission of backwardness. It is sucessful the very same way as "politically correct" is succesful or, in a different way, this systematic assumption of "offense" whenever being criticized or ridiculed. It allows one to feel super cool about his primitive stance, to revendicate it as some sort of daring rebellious ballsy anti-authoritarianism (while, ironically enough, it's most often itself a defense of the most normative, hierarchical, traditionalism), and to dismiss criticisms through the direct reversal of very values they are based on (the values themselves become the stigmatized element of the criticized critique : as soon as "social justice" -or "feminism", or "solidarity", etc- is designated as a drive, the discourse gets disqualified).
Words do not come alone, nor do they pop up without a history. Words carry representations. When a speaker qualifies his critics as "offended", he reveals a whole worldview with pre-set positions and motives (basically "my truth hurts, therefore they react with antagonism"), a worldview so far from reality that it ridicules the speakers in the eyes of all those who aren't precisely seeking such a narrative to avoid introspection. When a speaker borrows "politically correct" or "sjw" or other flagwords from cornered reactionary troglodytes, he shows his lack of awareness of the actual stakes and debates that are hijacking the matter. It's basically (knowingly or unknowingly) aligning oneself on a specific frontline, which is recognisable by the terms , concepts and phrasings exchanged. It is, consciously or not, endorsing the framing of the discussion in a specific way, that serves only to establish a false rhetorical opposition (and support a false narrative) which is the only angle through which the most backward fringe of our society can entrench itself.
In practice, the "sjw" term is used as a defense line against all sort of societal progress or issue awareness. It is used against antiracists when migration issues are at stake (with the stigmatisation of refugees or foreigners in general), it is used against feminists whenever implicit gender-asymetrical differences are poiinted out, it is used against social services whenever a question of global solidarity is raised against the right of solipsist greed. It can be, and is being, used to cheaply disqualify as irrelevant absolutely any legitimate social struggle. "Sjw" doesn't say anything, it doesn't define any threshold of legitimate or illegitimate social critique, it's is only a general label used indifferently against any progressive current.
The more it is being used, in more contexts, the more it imposes itself (like "politically correct") as a reflex argument (a reflex rhetorical tool) that warrants no questionning. It comes with a whole false obviousness of background "
social critique is often a mere self-serving caprice", that, because of this "obviousness" can be actualized in any convenient context ("
this is just an exemple of it"). With the same thoughtlessness as "oh here come more offended people" (implementing the readymade narratives of "people get hurt by the truth" or "people have no humour" that are just handily omnipresent in the back of one's head) and "oh this is political correctness again" (readily accessible to the brainless who just believe we live in a p.c. oppression and don't realise the multiplicity of speeches that would be currently transgressing it, in particulat the very present and very vocal ones who complain about it).
"Sjw" is (like many over-used rhetorical keywords) a wool thread that drags a whole ball behind it. Often on purpose ("i defend this game's presence on gog because it is my fight against the political oppression ...that forbid me to say that muslims are terrorists / women are bad drivers / jews are greedy / foreigners are ruining our race / etc") and sometimes by naivety ("i defend this game's presence on gog because it is so cool to fight for freedom against an oppressive enemy on a matter that is relevant to me, let's join this cool crowd who is defending these values of freedom and pointing at that oppression for so long"). But it's a specific bandwagon, on specific rails, fueled by a specific manipulative rhetoric, that (quite deliberately) englobe a specific lot of things. And when you join a bandwagon and start chanting their slogans without paying any attention to the words, their history, and their echos, you just show how prone you are to being drafted in dubious badass-sounding movements.
Words mean more than what they mean, and adopting them is not innocent. Because of how language and cognition works.