CMOT70: Nekro time. I just finished the game NG, NG+ and Platinum Trophy, about 80 hours of play all up, with the latest 1.9 patch which only came out last month. So I feel at least decently qualified to comment on any game issues. Frames rates were fine for me, if they dropped at any time then I didn't notice.
It had absolutely no glitches or freezes.
Latest patch removes some of the co-op restriction if you want to co-op with friends using codes. The match making for random co-op summoning is still restricted to within 10 levels I think, but after boss fights I never had any trouble immediately getting summoned by others to co-op bosses for some extra insight and blood echoes.
Load times are still on the slow side- usually about 20 - 25 seconds. But remember the game world is continuous and you never see a load screen unless you want to go back to the Hunters Dream to buy stuff, or fast travel...or you die. So just don't die, easy fix!
It's an awesome game, if you have a PS4 and know that you like the Souls games, and if the price is right for you, then it's a no brainer.
I went ahead and bought this mid April, got Platinum too, only second game ever that I did that, surprised with how reasonable the trophy demands were. Which build did you go with? I did NG and NG+ on pure dex Blades of Mercy/Rakuyo, and one NG on quality build with Ludwig's Holy Blade, have to say that I much preferred the dex build.
On topic though, I have to disagree with you, the loading times were a bit on the long side, yet didn't bother me much, framerate on the other hand is absolutely awful.
It struggles to even reach thirty, and I could feel it drop every time I swinged the camera around. Every once in a while I would think "there's something strange going on with the game", then I'd realize what it was, the fps was steady for a full 30 seconds. It broke my heart, the game working as it's meant to should be the default, not a reason to be surprised.
As you may have guessed by me finishing the game three times in a month and a half, I love it, it's the best game on PS4 and most definitely good enough to excuse its technical shortcomings. But excuse, sadly, is not the same as ignore, as I think that would be fairly difficult to do for most people.