nightcraw1er.488: Went through about 70% with a party, around the same with a solo character. Its was meh. Back before white march expansions, so don't know about them (although I do own them). It isn't currently on the to play again list, which is dwarfed by the still to play list by several parsecs, but maybe I should give it another go if so many think its such a good game.
Wait until the mood strikes you. My reaction to PoE was pretty much the same as yours, although I only played through it once. I've not played the White March expansions yet, and right now the thought of slogging through the game again isn't all that appealing, so I'm waiting until some point in the future where I'll get the urge to try it again. May not be anytime soon, but I'm pretty sure it'll happen eventually. Perhaps I'll look into mods to see if that makes it more appealing to me...