Kardwill: ...Not sure the guys who died during Napoleon's conquests or during the Vendée civil war (also know as "the Hell Legions war") would agree with me, though.
Trilarion: If you compare with a purely monarchy or dictatorship during the whole time you would probably expect many bloody wars too (as it for example happened before the French started with the democracy thing).
Well yeah. Despite the horror lists of the Revolution, the real asshole of French history is the Religion Wars era of the XVI th century, and those slaughters were fully endorsed by the kings of the time.
Doesn't change the fact that the French Revolution was a pretty bloody mess for the people that lived through it, though. But I still think it was worth it to get rid of our tyrants (and to kick the Church out of the political landscape). War was still present, but it became a serious affair, and not simply a sick game for the nobility.
But my point was mostly that a working democracy like the one you described does not appear in one day, especially if the old figures of power are lurking around. We take it for granted but it takes time, and those times can be real unpleasant.