p_mamusz: ... don't pre-order...
I gotta say, my pre-orders work a lot differently, since they're on console, I'm free to pick up or not. There's literally no punishment for not doing so and it's not "hard" (if Amazon shipped it to me I have to process a return, but that's easy). Even "the evil" Gamestop will happily apply my 5 dollar pre-order money to my next purchase.
So, I pre-order, check the reviews on pick up day (embargo will be up), and decide if I want the game or not, if yes, go pick it up (or open the package on my doorstep).
There's little downside to pre-ordering on a console. It's only the digital releases (mostly confined to PC, and especially because it's the way Steam does it, everyone else has copied) where you get fucked. Steam, could add a confirmation before putting it in your inventory and charging you, but they don't give a fuck.
So yeah, I've watched most of those videos and the problems apply almost 100% to PC, and more specifically to Steam.