Posted May 31, 2016
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Don't you love it when you prepare post in quick reply window and then forget about it and click different page in the thread to check something?
Did he attack you personally or insult you in a way you did? I am not aware he did it although there is some possibility as I didn't read everything. But as far as I know he only attacked you arguments while you were calling him names.
Although I am not the biggest fan of HSL questioning any nitpick while dodging most question going his way, I don't think he did anything crossing boundaries here.
I actually considered to call him out in my yesterday post, but in regards to drealmer but I ultimately decided against it as there was enough people mentioned already and I felt like of all those mentioned he handled it in the least aggressive manner.
yogsloth: I am afraid I will simply never see it this way. Different playstyles? Yes, absolutely. This is not only welcome, but necessary for enjoyable games. However, I simply will never see "refusing to play" as a valid playstyle. It's incomprehensible to me. There are many, many, many perfectly valid ways to play, but they all involve playing. Playing involves playing. Not playing involves not playing. Not playing is not a valid way to play, axiomatically.
I don't care if people who refuse to play get turned off by being called upon to play. Good. They can go find a game they're willing to play instead of the one they signed up for that they refuse to play. Good riddance. The thing is, what you consider "refusal to play" just is playstyle for some people.
They may play that way because they don't have more time but still want to participate because they like the game. Or they are new or timid and don't know better way to post or it is just the only way they know or want to post.
I am still glad they play and I prefer to have them this way than not at all.
I doubt constsnt complaining about them and calling them useless will change them. I am more inclined to believe it will have opposite effect and will turn them off when you are invalidating their gamestyle.
Instead of berating and mocking them one should encourage them to post more.
Or use in-game features.
I am not happy either when game gets paralyzed for too many lurkers. If you were here longer you could know that I too used to have troubles with lurkers and constantly tried to encourage them to post more and thought of way how to deal with them via rules.
My current stance is that they should be investigated or shot to root out possible mafia from their midst intead of calling them non-players and similar over and over again.
Sure, lynch them for it if you don't like it, nightkill them, ask them to post more (in that order if you wish so), but I don't think calling them useless helps.
Once again, just my opinion, not official one.
drealmer7: Vitek, you say you found that town trent read of mine offensive. I really think you just don't understand my sarcasm and took it all wrong and that just makes me think that you completely understand me almost all of the time because you aren't picking up that I'm joking or trying to be light-hearted. I thought that post would lighten everything, be amusing, and get my point across in a playful and friendly-yet-cutting way. I mean, that's why it was the way it was, otherwise I thought it would have come off super dickish and so I really exaggerated it all. That's why I signed it the way I did. I...just...again, if I ever say anything anyone finds offensive, please just talk to me about it. I really don't mean to be a dick! I'm a nice guy, I swear! heh. I'll pick this and tell you what I found wrong with the situation around that post and what for me shows your general behaviour. You made case of why is trent (or HSL?) scummy after you decided he is scummy. People told you that you shouldn't approach post analysis with only intent to prove what you already decided and adjusting every post to suit your reads but rather form your opinion based on those posts.
You refuted them by saying it could be true for other people but it is not here because it's you doing it and you are doing it logical.
Then when people tried to reason with you and make you see your analysis are flawed for making them for already decided perspective you mostly shrugged them off. So they asked you to do analysis of players from differnet perspective and when you finally got to it, it was that terrible post where you basically ignored what they asked you to and most of all you ridiculed every single trenton's post in the game.
Can you be surprised he (and others too) wasn't particulary happy with it?
No one is too happy when their request is just met with mockery and every post of one player is ridiculed.
You are also making it incredible hard to argue with you because when people attack some your conviction or outlandish statement , you just call it possible theory that doesn't have to be true and that makes it defended in your eyes and you continue to use that theory with 100% conviction. That makes it incredibly hard for others to reason with you. "You: Person A is scum because he is alien. Person B: It is stupid, he is not alien. You: Don't judge me, it is just theory and I think it could be true. Person B: Whatever. You: Person A is scum because he is alien."
Get me?
And it doesn't even have to be outlandish statement as in my example. But even from normal theories you pick one, decided it has to be true, but deflect criticism about it by saying it's just theory and then you continue to ride it hard.
Don't get surprised people don't want to waste time arguing with you.
I will second what Krypsyn said and will add that you don't seem to judge your behaviour the same way you treat others.
Ie. you often misspelled people names and no one cared and when someone did that to you, you called them out for it. MInor thing but it symptom of what I mean. The same way with that meta thing in this game. You were telling people to not use past games to judge but you did it yourself and when HSL called you out for it, you dismissed him as scummy and told him that you know what are you doing.
Even if you say you try to not come off that way, it feels the same way like during games. And that is that you preach one thing but do other and don't really try.
You seem to have little regard for others and always come off as you think that you know everything better than others and they should look up to you.
When others do something incorrect, it makes them auto scummy or bad in your eyes but, as you said yourself somewhere, if you fill thread with 10 theories and only 1 turns out to be correct then you were still right.
What if others filled the thread with 10 theories and you found them wrong? I fell like you would call them bad and scummy and either tried to make them follow you instead because you know better or call them scummy. All that with you liberal use of words in caps (because screaming words is cool) and what would be it would depend on how you were decided about them previously because you tend to tunnel extremly hard and refuse to acknowledge it and think about it.
Did he attack you personally or insult you in a way you did? I am not aware he did it although there is some possibility as I didn't read everything. But as far as I know he only attacked you arguments while you were calling him names.
Although I am not the biggest fan of HSL questioning any nitpick while dodging most question going his way, I don't think he did anything crossing boundaries here.
I actually considered to call him out in my yesterday post, but in regards to drealmer but I ultimately decided against it as there was enough people mentioned already and I felt like of all those mentioned he handled it in the least aggressive manner.
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I don't care if people who refuse to play get turned off by being called upon to play. Good. They can go find a game they're willing to play instead of the one they signed up for that they refuse to play. Good riddance.
They may play that way because they don't have more time but still want to participate because they like the game. Or they are new or timid and don't know better way to post or it is just the only way they know or want to post.
I am still glad they play and I prefer to have them this way than not at all.
I doubt constsnt complaining about them and calling them useless will change them. I am more inclined to believe it will have opposite effect and will turn them off when you are invalidating their gamestyle.
Instead of berating and mocking them one should encourage them to post more.
Or use in-game features.
I am not happy either when game gets paralyzed for too many lurkers. If you were here longer you could know that I too used to have troubles with lurkers and constantly tried to encourage them to post more and thought of way how to deal with them via rules.
My current stance is that they should be investigated or shot to root out possible mafia from their midst intead of calling them non-players and similar over and over again.
Sure, lynch them for it if you don't like it, nightkill them, ask them to post more (in that order if you wish so), but I don't think calling them useless helps.
Once again, just my opinion, not official one.
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You refuted them by saying it could be true for other people but it is not here because it's you doing it and you are doing it logical.
Then when people tried to reason with you and make you see your analysis are flawed for making them for already decided perspective you mostly shrugged them off. So they asked you to do analysis of players from differnet perspective and when you finally got to it, it was that terrible post where you basically ignored what they asked you to and most of all you ridiculed every single trenton's post in the game.
Can you be surprised he (and others too) wasn't particulary happy with it?
No one is too happy when their request is just met with mockery and every post of one player is ridiculed.
You are also making it incredible hard to argue with you because when people attack some your conviction or outlandish statement , you just call it possible theory that doesn't have to be true and that makes it defended in your eyes and you continue to use that theory with 100% conviction. That makes it incredibly hard for others to reason with you. "You: Person A is scum because he is alien. Person B: It is stupid, he is not alien. You: Don't judge me, it is just theory and I think it could be true. Person B: Whatever. You: Person A is scum because he is alien."
Get me?
And it doesn't even have to be outlandish statement as in my example. But even from normal theories you pick one, decided it has to be true, but deflect criticism about it by saying it's just theory and then you continue to ride it hard.
Don't get surprised people don't want to waste time arguing with you.
I will second what Krypsyn said and will add that you don't seem to judge your behaviour the same way you treat others.
Ie. you often misspelled people names and no one cared and when someone did that to you, you called them out for it. MInor thing but it symptom of what I mean. The same way with that meta thing in this game. You were telling people to not use past games to judge but you did it yourself and when HSL called you out for it, you dismissed him as scummy and told him that you know what are you doing.
Even if you say you try to not come off that way, it feels the same way like during games. And that is that you preach one thing but do other and don't really try.
You seem to have little regard for others and always come off as you think that you know everything better than others and they should look up to you.
When others do something incorrect, it makes them auto scummy or bad in your eyes but, as you said yourself somewhere, if you fill thread with 10 theories and only 1 turns out to be correct then you were still right.
What if others filled the thread with 10 theories and you found them wrong? I fell like you would call them bad and scummy and either tried to make them follow you instead because you know better or call them scummy. All that with you liberal use of words in caps (because screaming words is cool) and what would be it would depend on how you were decided about them previously because you tend to tunnel extremly hard and refuse to acknowledge it and think about it.
Post edited May 31, 2016 by Vitek