CarrionCrow: I think in my case, it's a matter where just the thought alone of reproducing makes me nauseated.
And yes, I know, my parents had to do that. I get the whole perpetuation of the species thing.
(Bringing this up because it was mentioned a bit ago.)
Doesn't stop me from telling my mother she's a dumbass for doing it. -laughs-
Also, adoption is a completely viable option. People want to think they're special, that they just need to make little copies of themselves, so they can live on in a way after they're corpses, and then they start spawning the little creatures like there's no tomorrow.
But there are already plenty of kids around because a lot of shitty, shitty adults who should have been forcibly sterilized got together and pumped out children by the countryful.
Those kids get second billing because people can't get the same ego boost raising those kids as they can by spawning their own.
-shakes head- So many people are so godsdamned stupid. They shouldn't breed. Ever. And yet they do.
(Apologies, Zenwan. Kinda went off on a tangent or three, slammed all my scattered thoughts into one post, then replied it over to you.
You're not on the hot seat for my contempt/disgust/sour stomach at it all. Promise. =) )
Now you've got me thinking and talking (or typing to be precise). Which is never a good thing.
I agree of course, but I'd add that there's also a biological imperative. The urge to breed, and in the same way that chimps kill infants from outside groups, adoption is an instinctive no-no for some people. A second rate option at best because those kids don't have their genes. So who cares about them? They're not your kids, they're future potential competitors.
It annoys me when they portray it in media and such. When they make out a drama out of a woman's or man's inability to conceive and their world falls apart as it's presented as a terrible tragedy.
I say that's bullshit and it's not a bigger drama than constipation. Breeding satisfies purely biological needs, like taking a dump. Every single psychological benefit and reward available from parenting, you can gain from adoption.
Told you, that me thinking and typing wasn't a good thing.