moonshineshadow: That seems like a good way to handle the borrowing of books. Since I do not live with my parents there are no rules here. I just bring her some books when visiting and take some :D And then sometimes my father reads them as well (but he does not have so much time so he only reads some of the books). And if my siblings come for a visit it might happen that the books are then lend to them :D But I always get them back in the end and they are carefull with my books :-)
My mum sometimes reads thrillers or murder mysteries but not very often. And I also do not really read them. The onliest time I prefer TV over books. For crime stuff it is quite relaxing to just watch a crime series on TV if I feel like that :D
And I can understand that you do not want to lend such precious books as your history books to others, especially when you got them from your grandma :-)
They don't borrow books too often, only when they come to visit. It was worse when I was growing up and we all lived together, but now I don't mind it if they borrow the books. They used to bring them back in horrible condition when we were kids, but thankfully they have grown out of that and take care of the books they borrow now.
I do not mind lending them some of the more recent or readily available books I got from my grandmother (not that they would really want to, in-depth factual history books are not for everyone), but a lot of them are very rare, very expensive, many are irreplaceable, and several are far older than my grandmother was. She was a historian and she collected a wealth of books on history. It partly due to sentimentality, but also due to them being irreplaceable to me if anything should happen to them.
LaPtiteBete: Yes, unfortunately... :-|
I don't have any preference, even if I know more french dudes than foreign ones ;-) (I love, for example, Victor Hugo, Gérard de Nerval, Alfred de Musset...)
What would you recommend me as english authors (Oscar Wilde, ... then ?)
There is nothing unfortunate about that, nothing to be ashamed of for being a big romantic at heart. I am a huge romantic when it comes to my partner, just not when it comes to books.
As for English authors, well that depends what genre of book you are after. For romantic stories, there are authors like Jane Austen, Shakespeare, or Charlotte Brontë. I am not too up to date on more modern romance authors, due to me not been big on the genre.