I can only speak for myself.
My politeness has limits. These limits are extreme-right militantism. Most forums that have rules enforcing polite interactions have also rules against hate speech, and as far as I am concerned, insulting a whole population made of billions of people one doesn't know at all is way worse than insulting one specific individual which mentality has been made univocally clear by himself. Someone who does the former deserves the latter. And I have not enough patience to do the latter in a classy way.
So, in my views, the GOG community has ceased to be classy when hate speech has started to be okay in it, shattering my impression of an overwhelmingly okay population. And my own further participation in GOG's loss of class is my response to the individuals who represent this trend. That being said, if such a response was more common, that is if there had been a mods-free self-moderating peer-pressure against extreme-right discourses, then GOG would have stayed a classy community in the frst place. Without requiring formal rules to be enforced.
That being said, I vaguely suspect that the indirect enabler for this shift to okay radical reactionary, xenophobic and racist discourse, may be found in the gamergate warzone. It is just a supposition, as I didn't follow the gamergate tread, but for the little I glimpsed, there's been a certain amount of collectively-self-validating sexist and homophobic postures around these themes, and this may have encouraged other expressions of that ideology on other subjects. If that's the case, well, there could be an identifiable tipping point in GOG forum's history, with identifiable reasons.
Also I do not think this can be repaired, because the image of the community, the mutual trust (in decency and intelligence), and global impersonal default sympathy, has ben shattered. Not, the GOG forum is just "the internet", and what is expected i it, what is expected of it, is no different anymore from what is expected from youtube comments or any other random internet zone. So, that's that. No particular GOG flavor anymore, just a total osmosis with the internet as a whole.
Self-moderation (the ideal form of forum management) works if there is a collective consensus on which discourses are or aren't deemed okay. This sets the "class" expectations within a community as something that is agreed on. Once the proponents of the nastiest discourses reach a critical mass, this consensus is gone, and the self-moderation can't work anymore : the peer pressure isn't unanimous enough to drown disagreements on the sort of speeches to encourage or discourage. Disagreements on it turn to little civil wars, and new informal norms are being established. A new collective flavor is established, reflecting the dominant sensitivity in the newly shaped community. It may be a mere impression, but I'd say that this has happened on GOG, and the dominant sensitivity has mutated in the course of these last three years. At least, the impression that the forums give me did. But, in sometimes different ways, this impression of change seems widespread. And there we are, dealing with it.
Post edited September 20, 2015 by Telika