Posted December 15, 2016
I tend to agree with this. To me many (but not all) people labelling themselves as (left wing) feminists are quite neo-conservatives, trying to control people's sexuality, telling what kind of consensual sexuality is bad and what is not approved.
For instance, pornography in general. Porn has one and only one purpose: to arouse the viewer. Yet many feminists feel that either pornography should be outlawed because it is supposedly demeaning to women in general and gives young boys wrong ideas about sexuality, or at least it should be changed to be more "feminist".
I personally feel it is mostly the other way around: people are not "taught" by porn videos what will arouse them, but people will simply seek stuff that arouses them. Some like big titties, someone likes gay porn, someone likes petite women, someone likes rubber and leather etc. I am pretty sure that e.g. I will not learn to get aroused by gay porn by simply watching it, and vice versa, a gay will not become hetero by watching hetero porn.
I personally find the idea of "changing porn" pretty meaningless because everyone is free to do any kind of porn they want, as long as it is consensual. There is no need to try to change existing porn, make your own if you feel the need and think there are other people wanting to watch it.
Another one is prostitution. Many feminists feel it should be abolished completely (e.g. the Swedish way, making it illegal to pay for sex ie. making the customers criminals), but there seems to be some variance as some feminist still seem to feel as long as a woman (or man) does it on their own will, anyone should be allowed to sell sex services, and that the real problem is the stigma related to prostitution, not the prostitution in itself.
The anti-prostitution feminists seem quite annoyed by there being other feminists that don't share their view on prostitution.
I thought that was evident he is joking...
For instance, pornography in general. Porn has one and only one purpose: to arouse the viewer. Yet many feminists feel that either pornography should be outlawed because it is supposedly demeaning to women in general and gives young boys wrong ideas about sexuality, or at least it should be changed to be more "feminist".
I personally feel it is mostly the other way around: people are not "taught" by porn videos what will arouse them, but people will simply seek stuff that arouses them. Some like big titties, someone likes gay porn, someone likes petite women, someone likes rubber and leather etc. I am pretty sure that e.g. I will not learn to get aroused by gay porn by simply watching it, and vice versa, a gay will not become hetero by watching hetero porn.
I personally find the idea of "changing porn" pretty meaningless because everyone is free to do any kind of porn they want, as long as it is consensual. There is no need to try to change existing porn, make your own if you feel the need and think there are other people wanting to watch it.
Another one is prostitution. Many feminists feel it should be abolished completely (e.g. the Swedish way, making it illegal to pay for sex ie. making the customers criminals), but there seems to be some variance as some feminist still seem to feel as long as a woman (or man) does it on their own will, anyone should be allowed to sell sex services, and that the real problem is the stigma related to prostitution, not the prostitution in itself.
The anti-prostitution feminists seem quite annoyed by there being other feminists that don't share their view on prostitution.
I thought that was evident he is joking...
Post edited December 15, 2016 by timppu