timppu: Everyone is so COOL and sarcastic and whatnot in the movie.
Are they though? I hear this complaint often about it but it never makes much sense to me. Spoiler Ahead.
Nolan is pathetic at the beginning of the movie. A guy who works a job he hates that competely desensitized him and turned him into a cynic. He has to build his Identity around IKEA furniture and the only way he can feel human contact is at revelling in the misery of others at self help meetings. He loathes himself so much he has to create a fantasy version of himself to pick himself up.
Tyler (Brad Pitt) is THE cool guy. He's the friend you always wanted, who can do whatever he wants and fuck any girl he wants, but he still hangs out with a loser like nolan and always covers his back because they bonded. That's the whole point of his character he's not real, there's no Cool Guy Tyler Durden in reality.
Marla seems to be this quickwitted woman with a sharp tongue, but that too is just a front she's an emotinally fragile mess behind that facade who never moved beyond being the edgy girl in highschool.
The Fight Club itself is just a refuge for loosers who haven't hit rock bottom hard enough to become criminals but like Norton don't enjoy their lives either.
I do agree though that the film works much better when you're a teen or just a bit older and you really get swept up in Tyler's persona and his whole Anti-system anti-capitalist thing, before the movie slams it back into your face (the book handled it better, especially the ending but I liked both). A good substite movie is American Beauty which basically also deals with being unsatisfied by your life but with a lot less angst/edge and more actual real adult fears.
And if you are in any way shape or form implying Pulp Fiction still isn't the coolest film ever there's something wrong with you, man.