Antimateria: Europeans are making a mess for being too tolerant and scared to say their opinions about immigrants. You live in Finland you should know. Everything is labelled as racists if you aren't swallowing everything what is happening in the world like a good boy.
I think people just need to get over the labels (or being labeled), and try to discuss about the actual matters instead. So, you should try not to care about someone calling you racist, but you should care about their counterarguments, why they think you are wrong.
I don't quite agree with you though that people are scared to say their piece in Finland (about asylum seekers etc.), quite the opposite in fact. People seem quite strongly divided on the matter, though.
I personally am currently quite critical towards the current asylum seeking process, but at the same time I am very much against open racism, e.g. against people who have already migrated here.
The current big debate in Finland is that one municipal politician in Tampere who complained why muslim kids are taking part in a Finnish (Christian) Easter tradition, going door to door dressed as a witch, asking for candy (a bit like kids in US on Halloween). Like many, I was angered what an inconsiderate prick that politician is, blaming immigrant (muslim) kids for adopting Finnish traditions?
First of all, of course, while that tradition happens during Easter, it is not really Christian but a pagan tradition. I mean, come on, dressed as a witch asking for candy? Is that candy supposed to represent the Body of Christ or something?
And even if it was considered as a Christian tradition, isn't it only positive that immigrant kids adopt such traditions? I've visited buddhist temples and joined their traditions even though I am not even a buddhist. Or, if I am in a movie theater in Thailand, I stand up like the rest of the audience when that song of the beloved Thai king comes out just before the movie starts.
It is my way to show respect to the Thai culture, and never I saw anyone suggesting I should go away, quite on the contrary.
I really feel sorry for those kids, trying to integrate to a Finnish society better, and then getting that kind of negative feedback from some racist asshat? (there, I labeled her)