As with all media, you have both the products made by a propaganda machine, and you have art. For the sake of forum rules, I can't go too far into detail but if you notice how media products have become stale, with no heart, almost like they were made by machines, you're seeing that attempt to turn media into a weapon of control via information and pacification. However, unlike the visual media industry (which, at least in the west, has become almost exclusively mechanic), video games still have plenty of true, heartful art. Games definitely are on their way toward that propagandization but not quite.
So yes and no. Yes, they're
trying to keep people pacified through games but that doesn't mean all games are doing that. This subject actually ties really well into the subject of the Dead Internet Theory. I highly suggest you research it or watch
All Time's playlist explaining the subject. It'll blow you away and probably change your perspective on the internet. Furthermore, it also might help you to realize just what's going on these days. It truly is a red pill moment, I've had friends and acquaintances tell me it absolutely shattered their illusions of what the modern internet actually is and it made them think long and hard about whether there may or may not be a nefarious agenda at work by megacorps like Google, Amazon, Facebook, etc.
But I digress. As with all art forms, when the majority becomes soulless or mechanical, you just have to look elsewhere. For visual media, eastern shows seem to mostly still have the heart that comes with art. For music, try other genres; for example, if you like rock or metal and get sick of cookie-cutter bands in both genres, try something different such as post-rock or progressive metal. For books... well, you just have to look. And with games, your best bet is to dive into indie games. None of these are a perfect solution but if you don't want to go insane OR bow to the machine, you just have to make it work somehow.