jamyskis: Is it just me or is it getting impossible to have a normal conversation with normal people on a gaming forum nowadays? Everyone seems to lurch to one political extreme or another. Is there anyone here who isn't a misogynist or xenophobic prick or a white knight SJW? Because I'm honestly having difficulty in finding anyone who doesn't overgeneralise about women, gamers, Muslims, Americans, Europeans, old people, young people, console gamers or PC gamers.
Yes, misogyny happens in gaming. A lot. But call people out on it as and when it happens. Exposing the individual is the best way in shaming them. Like tort1234 for example, who has proven himself to not just be a vile racist prick but also a misogynistic wanker as well. Letting them hide among gaming communities by generalising just lets them redirect the blame.
And the extreme feminist wing/the SJWs really haven't done themselves any favours by desperately trying to exaggerate the problem by raging over "hero saves princess" storylines and bikini-clad warriors.
I guess people like to take more extreme positions when on the internet.
On the other hand I really wonder why games so often stay within traditional role models. I mean: Men is warrier, Women is housekeeper, Men+Women+Kids is family. This somehow does not reflect modern reality as I know it and lacks behind it in a certain aspect. And the 1 millionth "hero saves princess" actually can be quite boring, even if every individual one is kind of okay.
Instead of being progressive and mature in a way many modern video games seem to take conservative and also somewhat primitive views on genders or social relations. This is the biggest problem I have with this whole debate.
The truth is instead: everything is possible. It doesn't matter if you are a girl or a boy or something else. You can be anything and can do anything you want, as long as others let you.
Everyone who doesn't believe me, should wait until he/she gets a daughter and then think again.
And the problem is that modern video games could show so much more of what really is the case in our society. It's really a loss because I think we could do a bit better.
I hope I'm not too extreme in this view. I'm not particularly mad at anyone but I try to selectively buy games with an interesting progressive storyline also genderwise or not to buy too many games that are just the same old stuff which is not even interesting.
babark: So you're surfing gog at work just to drive home the point even harder? :P
Sure, I see it as my duty. :)
Also I have given up competing with her. She is just too good for me and I know my limitations. On the other hand although she should probably earn more I'm not willing up to give my salary voluntarily to increase the one of others, may it be a men or a women.