verus27: I honestly can't remember any time in D&D where sexuality or gender has ever made a difference. Not to say that it never has, simply that I've never noticed it.
dtgreene: Actually, I can name a few instances.
1. As I mentioned before, 1st edition AD&D (and the SSI Gold Box games based off those rules) limit the strength stat of female characters.
2. In the game's early history, there have been some articles in magazines that would be considered sexist by modern standards. This includes things like the "charm man" spell, and the use of Beauty in place of Charisma for female characters. Also, apparently there was a seduction table published at one point.
3. 2nd edition has the Amazon series of kits (one for each of the 4 basic classes). One trait I remember is that they got a bonus to hit (+3) on the first encounter with a male who had not encountered an amazon before. (There were some strict limitations on when that ability applies.)
4. In Baldur's Gate 2, Drow society has strict gender roles, albeit roles that are different from those in real life. (Note, for instance, how someone remarks on how rare female mages are if your character is one when you are disgused as Drow.)
Of note, the situation improved with time. 2nd edition got rid of the female strength limit, putting female characters at mechanical parity with males. 3rd edition mixed up the use of pronouns in the core rulebook (sometimes, "she" is used in place of "he" when referring to a character), and some of the iconic characters (Lidda and Mialee) are female. 5th edition's basic rules even has a part where it says something like "you don't have to be restricted to binary notions of sex and gender". (Anyone know the situation in 4th edition? I'm guessing it's like 3rd in this respect.)
I stand corrected. It's been to long since I've played D&D ...
I'm going to wait for reviews and (hopefully) writing discussions about the expansion before I decided whether to get it or not. I get concerned anytime I find a writer talking about some ideological problems they had with the material that they're basing their work on. I find it usually makes the new additions stand out as being not a part of the complete work.