Hickory: Not when you're a squishy mage -- with only one spell per rest -- fresh out of Candlekeep, with only Imoen (and her 9 Strength) as backup, or possibly even without her. You WILL die, without metagaming. Close with a wolf at level 1? Not going to survive.
NotJabba: I would recommend that any character, regardless of class, go to the Friendly Arm Inn and get Jaheira and Khalid before trying to fight a wolf. Since the game tells you to do this, it's not even metagaming in the sense of having prior knowledge of what to do. Even then, you might want to level up before fighting any type of wolf. I wouldn't personally recommend kiting as the solution to these battles, but it always comes down to whatever play style is the most fun for a particular player.
Also, if your one spell is Sleep, then you've probably got a good chance of beating that first wolf with a mage and Imoen. You can beat even tougher opponents like Ankhegs that way. There's always a way. Or three ways. Or eight. That's why people like this series.
Everything you have just said implies meta-gaming. Just try to go back to the very first time you ever played BG -- it's very hard, believe it or not -- and also try to imagine you had never read a walkthrough, or watched a Let's Play. Are you seriously telling me you're going to take the advice of the narrator literally, and head, along the roads, directly to the Friendly Arm Inn, which, by the way, you actually don't know where it is?
Also, wolves have a very decent save vs. Sleep, so it's touch and go whether that strategy (that a beginner would not know) would help you in the slightest.
Let me be clear: I do not like kiting. I avoid it wherever possible, but it's a valid strategy, especially for beginners.