waltc: As far romances and sex go--the Internet is awash in pornography and cheap romance novels are a dime a dozen these days. For me--romance just doesn't fit in the RPG where the purpose is battling "otherworld" evil in all its many forms, etc. If people want smoozy romancing let them fire up The Sims, etc....;) There are plenty of places to go for cartoon sex depictions if they want those, etc. I don't want to see that sort of thing pollute role-playing games--if people want to smooze or socialize, let them go to Facebook...;)
I know some people like the cheap, silly romances in RPGs--and that I cannot understand. It's like defiling the purity of the genre...;)
If you are going to talk about defiling the purity of the genre, here are some other things that defile that purity:
* Having a real-time aspect to combat. (In particular, real-time-with-pause, as seen in BG1 and BG2, defiles the purity here.)
* Having large amounts of dialog, with dialog choices. (This belongs in visual novels, not pure RPGs.)
* Having cutscenes. (Again, belongs in visual/kinetic novels or perhaps FMV games, not pure RPGs.)
* Having puzzles. (These belong in adventure or puzzle games, depending on whether the puzzle is scripted or has mechanics.)
* Having action minigames. (Not a problem for BG1/BG2, but it's an issue in many other games in the genre, including Ultima 1 and Final Fantasy 7.)
So, even Baldur's Gate 1 and 2 are already not particularly pure, even if you don't count BG2's romances. (This can be said of many other games, probably even most of the games you tend to think of as being RPGs.)