Zaxares: So first of all, it's not really a bear. It's just a druid Wild Shaped into one, and the scene in question only plays if YOU, the player, pick multiple times saying "Yes, I want to do this." It's like if a GTA game gave you the option to kill your own mother, but you have to choose that you want to kill your own mother multiple times. Is it fair to say that the game encourages you to be a mother-killer? Or is it the player's fault for demanding that they be allowed to kill their mother?
Also, on a more philosophical note, it should be pointed out that due to the Speak with Animals spell, animals in D&D are clearly a LOT more intelligent and possessed of individual agency than animals in real life. This is kind of like us discovering that cows and chickens in real life are actually just as smart as we are, it's just that we were never able to talk to them before. It would totally upend the way we interact with and treat animals.
It's not worth wasting your time. They're not here for good-faith discussions. They're trolling to deliberately start an argument that they think they can win, to signal some kind of moral superiority and try to compensate for a sad, meaningless, lonely existence full of losses.
This has been well-covered multiple times on this forum, and anyone with good-faith interest could search and read those threads, realize whatever nazi youtuber they were listening to was overblowing the situation, and move on with their life. The ones who post new threads on this topic aren't worth engaging with.