hedwards: Not to be that guy, but it was incredibly selfish of him to not only put his wife through the pain of losing a husband to suicide, but to also burden her with doing it basically in front of her as she tried to stop him.
He may have been a wonderful man most of the time, but that was a pretty dickish way of going out.
scampywiak: To call suicide selfish...is selfish. We can't know what a person is going through internally. It's unfair to label these people as cowards.
That's the thing though, suicide IS selfish. Just look at what he did to his wife. There she is trying to talk him down, doubtless going to be haunted for the rest of her life, and he goes and fucking blows his head off.
On what world is that not selfish? There's treatment out there for people who feel like that, and quite frankly, this whole business is unbelievable selfish.
hedwards: Not to be that guy, but it was incredibly selfish of him to not only put his wife through the pain of losing a husband to suicide, but to also burden her with doing it basically in front of her as she tried to stop him.
He may have been a wonderful man most of the time, but that was a pretty dickish way of going out.
king_mosiah: Wow, I have to almost applaud the level of dickishness of this post......
I had a friend that killed himself when I was in high school and this kind of bad, fucking attitude just ensures that there will be more deaths. Suicide is an incredibly self centered reaction in virtually every case. He had problems, they could have been fixed. He chose to leave his wife in a situation where she's going to be haunted for the rest of her life. Any life insurance that he might of had, won't be paid out because it was suicide.
Then there's the other loved ones that care about him.
Don't be such a fucking tool. Suicide is an incredibly selfish action and pretending like it's somehow justifiable in cases where a person isn't terminally ill is just bullshit. The last thing we need is for more people to kill themselves because they feel like shit and want to leave a lasting impression.