Posted December 03, 2013

Licurg
Buy Sacrifice!!!
Registered: Apr 2012
From Romania

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Registered: Sep 2012
From United States

darthvader39560
If it bleeds...
Registered: May 2013
From United Kingdom

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Registered: Sep 2012
From United States

darthvader39560
If it bleeds...
Registered: May 2013
From United Kingdom
Posted December 03, 2013
Yep. Kinda hard to talk about stuff like this to your friends.

fortune_p_dawg
constipationisbad
Registered: Aug 2011
From United States
Posted December 03, 2013
You know, as you get older you'll stop caring what people (your pals included) think. It's liberating in a strange sort of way.

DProject
Not Deus Ex
Registered: Dec 2009
From Finland
Posted December 03, 2013
The number one thing girls find most attractive, is confidence. So if you really want to have a shot at her, tell her this:
"Hey, I've noticed we seem to get along quite nicely: what would you say if we went for a cup of Joe after class?" (Doesn't have to be those exact words, improvise something)
"Hey, I've noticed we seem to get along quite nicely: what would you say if we went for a cup of Joe after class?" (Doesn't have to be those exact words, improvise something)

Shaolin_sKunk
Misanthrope
Registered: May 2012
From United States
Posted December 03, 2013
Act like you're far too good for her then she'll wonder why you think that and then she'll try to get your attention. If you bag her the ruse will wear off and she'll find you much less desirable than the initial impression might have suggested.
Why yes, I'm single, why do you ask?
Why yes, I'm single, why do you ask?

darthvader39560
If it bleeds...
Registered: May 2013
From United Kingdom
Posted December 03, 2013

"Hey, I've noticed we seem to get along quite nicely: what would you say if we went for a cup of Joe after class?" (Doesn't have to be those exact words, improvise something)

DProject
Not Deus Ex
Registered: Dec 2009
From Finland
Posted December 03, 2013

"Hey, I've noticed we seem to get along quite nicely: what would you say if we went for a cup of Joe after class?" (Doesn't have to be those exact words, improvise something)


darthvader39560
If it bleeds...
Registered: May 2013
From United Kingdom
Posted December 03, 2013



kojocel
Red Forest
Registered: Feb 2012
From Romania
Posted December 03, 2013

There's too much pressure to be perfect prince charmings and most of the time, that's not want women actually want either. Don't worry about making a mistake, bro, because most of the time, if you come off a LITTLE awkward, it's endearing.
My regards.

darthvader39560
If it bleeds...
Registered: May 2013
From United Kingdom
Posted December 03, 2013

There's too much pressure to be perfect prince charmings and most of the time, that's not want women actually want either. Don't worry about making a mistake, bro, because most of the time, if you come off a LITTLE awkward, it's endearing.

My regards.

Kunovski
AM
Registered: Sep 2008
From Czech Republic
Posted December 03, 2013
wow, this is hardcore... when I remember my 15, everything I did to impress a girl was just a disaster, they always ran out to more charismatic/funny/athletic guys...
but later, my boy, later! later is the time you'll shine!
LiquidOxygen80: Look man, despite what people want you to think, there really IS no trick or special way to talk to women/girls. Just be yourself, rough edges as well. Women like confidence, and confidence in who you are, tempered with the ability to be natural is a good start. Being funny is a good opener and one facet of what girls want when they're scoping guys as objects of their affection, because if you know how to have a good time, you'll be fun to be around, and fun to be around is contagious to both sexes.
There's too much pressure to be perfect prince charmings and most of the time, that's not want women actually want either. Don't worry about making a mistake, bro, because most of the time, if you come off a LITTLE awkward, it's endearing. good stuff
but later, my boy, later! later is the time you'll shine!

There's too much pressure to be perfect prince charmings and most of the time, that's not want women actually want either. Don't worry about making a mistake, bro, because most of the time, if you come off a LITTLE awkward, it's endearing.
Post edited December 03, 2013 by Kunovski

Spinorial
Ninja who say Ni
Registered: Dec 2011
From Canada
Posted December 03, 2013
Seems to me you're past the point of needing to impress her. You already get along fairly well, so that counts way more.
Something else, though. Can't you think of a way to do homework together? Seems like an easy way of naturally extending a good working relationship, with more interaction time and little awkwardness. That stuff's always best done in groups, anyway. Of course, if there's not much to do, then it's probably best not try it, lest it seem as an awkward attempt at spending more time with her; just go for the café date, then. Occasionally, the two even work well together, coffee and homework :-)
Something else, though. Can't you think of a way to do homework together? Seems like an easy way of naturally extending a good working relationship, with more interaction time and little awkwardness. That stuff's always best done in groups, anyway. Of course, if there's not much to do, then it's probably best not try it, lest it seem as an awkward attempt at spending more time with her; just go for the café date, then. Occasionally, the two even work well together, coffee and homework :-)