Vestin: Forums are a part of life, the world and human interactions. I don't see why they should be treated any more or less seriously than other areas.
In fact - I dislike the attitude of treating the Internet and things associated with it as something inferior, silly, meaningless... Unless, of course, this is accompanied by general remarks on how everything else in life is equally of no consequence. I am also irked by people who fail to notice the parallels between social conventions, reputation, impoliteness and all the other phenomena pertaining to human interactions of both "worlds" - the digital and the analog one.
ellynandroid: I agree.
The dismissive attitude of a lot of people online (the "it's the internet, don't take it seriously" argument) is not only ridiculous and demeaning, it encourages bullying — even from otherwise reasonably decent people. Hell, I fell prey to that mindset (briefly, until I realised what the hell I was doing) when I was younger and stupider. The distinction we make between the "real world" and the internet doesn't help, either — where are we but the real world? The internet is a method of communication, not freaking Skyrim.
Eh, the problem would be solved if GOG would just put in the ignore users function that people have been asking for.
And yes, it's not real life. If you start getting bullied, it's easy enough to just leave the thread and not bother continuing things. That's usually what I do when I realize that I'm in a flamewar, just stop posting there and let it die on its own.
Which is substantially harder in real life with real life bullies.