Posted June 06, 2020
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Agreed on the respect.
Maybe, maybe not.....as you yourself remain somewhat optimistic on this issue, I remain somewhat optimistic I can "turn some of them around"(to at least act nice to people) or at least find some common ground(or maybe even agree/get along with them on other topics).
Maybe ask yourself when reading something what the context and intent is instead of assuming ill intent on the part of the poster?
I can't speak for others, but I wasn't trying to be mean by what I said.....the criticism I offered might have come off the wrong way but it mostly comes/came from a good place**.
(**=I have vented a bit after being irked at some replies, on very rare occasion, but kept it as civil as possible)
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All the above aside, I wish everyone only the best of luck with this...and with that I am going off to play some more Thief Gold.
Maybe, maybe not.....as you yourself remain somewhat optimistic on this issue, I remain somewhat optimistic I can "turn some of them around"(to at least act nice to people) or at least find some common ground(or maybe even agree/get along with them on other topics).
Timboli: I'm known for making what are called word walls, and I used to reply after reply after reply, trying to clear issues up ... never really worked, and from what I have seen with other conversations by other people, it is always the same.
Anecdotal, but I have actually cleared up bad first impressions and made amends with(and even developed friendships) with those I had issues with in the past....yes, often it can be a waste of time, but for the times that it does work imo it is worth the effort. Timboli: P.S. I do keep talking to some ... or now and then ... that's about as nice as it gets from me, if I feel disrespected. Like I have said before, I am a pretty forgiving fellow, but I do have a limit to my tolerance.
That may be, but(if I may be open and share an observation) it seems you sometimes (as do many nowadays, it seems) see some things that likely aren't meant to be insulting/etc in a more negative light than intended. Maybe ask yourself when reading something what the context and intent is instead of assuming ill intent on the part of the poster?
Timboli: P.S.S. And honestly, you are asking me to be nice, to people who have come here with one negative disrespectful object in mind ... to tell us how stupid we are ... even you are guilty of that.
As said above, you seem to sometimes read negativity into people's intent. I can't speak for others, but I wasn't trying to be mean by what I said.....the criticism I offered might have come off the wrong way but it mostly comes/came from a good place**.
(**=I have vented a bit after being irked at some replies, on very rare occasion, but kept it as civil as possible)
Timboli: P.S.S.S. And some do it with one sentence, like a troll. Please explain why they need my niceness, when they really deserve contempt?
As to why one should show kindness.....to maybe set a good example for them to follow and promote good will and civility? Those are noble and good enough reasons, I think. ================================================
All the above aside, I wish everyone only the best of luck with this...and with that I am going off to play some more Thief Gold.
Post edited June 06, 2020 by GameRager