What orc said.

I spent 6 years trying to make this girl happy and I sacrificed a lot of stuff for her.

In ending, I got my heart brutally crushed because she was being fucking bitch, not acknowledging my sacrifices and efforts over the years.

I firmly believe that relationships should be 2-way street, not fucking 1 way highway. But I was naive and idiot at that time. Nobody was there for me so I only had me for duration of the time.

Dude, just drop that relationship and move on with the life but you won't probably heeded this advice at all.

i spent last 2 years rebuilding myself and I'm doing much much much better these days.

Amores perros, dude. But you gotta know where to draw the line.

*incoming wall-o-text*

I am in a somewhat similar situation. I do my best to help her, do anything she needs, etc.
Yet we are together very rarely (and if we hadn't the same shift these two weeks, we probably wouldn't be together anyways). She claims that she has problems with family, her father is an alcoholic, her mom has health problems, then her personal health problems...you know, for a few times it would have been acceptable excuse, but....last time we were together was about 3 months ago. And she lives near the town I live in, but we meet as if she was living in Australia.

Telling her something about that is not an option, since she told me that it was one of the reasons she broke with her former boyfriend (the others were his family and such). Basically when I told her it once that we are so rarely together, her ultimate response was something like "deal with it or go find another girl". And I wanted to break up, but I couldn't. Call me weakling, but I really couldn't.

As I have said before, I do all my best to help her and she keeps thanking me for what I've done for her, she says that I am such a support for her, or that I've done so much fir her and been with her (metaphorically, of course) in her worst moments in her life. Despite everything, she keeps only promissing this and that. Hell, she even asked me in December when I want to have sex with her, because I've never talked with her about it before, yet when we were together since then (3 times!) she always "had her period". And what is the biggest fun? She told me back then that relationship without sex could whither. Oh, the irony...

She came to me and asked me to go out with her, yet we've met first time after about 5 months. Maybe I am enduring all this shit because this is my first relationship (if we can call it that) ever, or simply I am an idiot.
On the other hand, now I have possibility to start with one other girl and though she lives in Czech republic, but I plan to meet her. Maybe I will be with her more often than with this one, which is really ironic, since this one is living about 6 km away and the other about 150km.
I am aware that I might look like a dick since I am trying to start with other girl, though after all this shit I've been before with her, I don't know if is it still worth it. She keeps telling me that she loves me (and promising something new), yet it is me who is doing most of the work for "us".
Oh, well.

EDIT: today we had to go to another city to someone who had to repair her brother's car (since he couldn't go due to work or such). She texted me in the morning that her brother can go there after all, so I could come at 9:15 or 10:00 bus and that she will call me later. It is 9:10, no call or message from her, so I call her, nothing happens. Then I wait until 9:55 and call her, she seems like she just woke up and that I can come on the next bus (10:50), and that she will explain it. I bet my left nut, that it will be just her usual excuse "my father was drunk again and he..." or "my mum had some problems again". Either that, or she will text me in next few minutes that she can't come because of <insert any excuse>.
I don't even know if I want to go there just to hear the same shit again.

That sounds really bad man and I feel for you. I hope you will make the right decision. My situation is vastly different though. She is my neighbor and I meet her literally every day. She has never said anything mean or rude to me, she is mostly distant and cold.

If I was certain that it is so then I'd probably have moved on. I can see the slight changes though. She becomes more trusting and more open but it really happens at a snail-like pace. I think I can do it, it's just going to take a lot of time though.

Please post the rest of your story, it was getting interesting :D
Really wish you and everyone the best!

See attached.

On a note that may or may not be related, if I like bad fan art can I still be a good person? :X

Fucking insomnia

Well, I hope so too.

OK, here you have the update from yesterday. Another, albeit smaller wall-o-text incoming. So I came and she told me it was about her mother's health again. Well, fine then. We were talking about something and then she started "get ready, we'll have sex next week" (explanation: next week we have the same shift after work, the morning shift, so theoretically it is possible. I said theoretically, because I am still somewhat sceptical, since her promissed/fullfilled ratio is very low).

Then later she was finishing some cooking and I went there to get something to drink and I noticed her standing next to me as if she wanted to hug me. So I hugged her and when I was about to kiss her, she plunged her tongue in my mouth and grabbed my dick, which completely took me by surprise. She even told me I was blushing, since it was really unexpected from her, like the Spanish Inquisition :P

When we were at work, she wasn't in mood for talking as she normally is, claiming that she has to work so she'll finish earlier. Though, this week we were always talking a few times during the work, in total about hour or two and she was still working besides it so I thought I did or said something wrong. When I came later, she had better mood, so at least something.

She even wanted me to learn driving a car, and while I own a driving license, I don't drive since I am afraid of it. I even have some concentration problems and sometimes I fail to spot obvious details or things even if they are right in front of my eyes and you can imagine what can happen when I fail to spot something while driving a car. She even suggested me to go to driving school and buy a few lessons with the instructor to get back into it.

We'll see what happens next week.
Wall of text hits you for 1337 damage. You are dead.

How about we don't bitch about life because we are all posting on computers and no matter how ungrateful we are about our awesome lives, we are all still alive and most likely live in first world countries.

Focus on the positive people, not the negative. No matter how bad you whine about your life being, someone has it twenty five hundred times worse than you ever could.

Reading some of the things in this thread people are moaning is really just silly stuff. Worry about things that really matter, people.

We could but that'd be offtopic, now wouldn't it? Oh yeah, also there's a thread about being thankful already. :P

:)

hahah :D

But where's the fun in that?

Though I can't help but put myself in perspective reading these. I complained about being hurt by all the mean people on the Internet. osborne112 follows with how his parents told him he's going to Hell. Yeah.

Was...that an answer to my last question?

The whole reason I started the thread is to encourage people to just get shit off their chests because sometimes posting a wall of text is very therapeautic

Was laughing about the block. ;)

You dont have to be focused and concentrated all of the time while driving. Relax a bit too. While i am still making mistakes after 3 months of getting my drivers license i am getting the "hang of it" :D

Although i can drive from point A to B without any major problems i still always rely on my gps:(

Anyway, what really helped me was getting off the late shift and driving home near midnight with absolutely noone else on the street. Sure it's dark and freaky, but i found the need to get home a major motivation :D Besides always remember, while driving everyone makes mistakes constantly - regardless of their experience!

I've had a shitty week. My mom has been on my case and we are now going to have to go to therapy, my best friend lost one of her friends today and I spent 2 hours calming her down, and my working hours sucked.