dtgreene: When it comes to 3DS games, if I do eventually look into getting games for that system, the Fire Emblem games will likely be low on the list; the Etrian Odyssey games (though I'm not sure about the remakes), Bravely Default, Legend of Legacy, and perhaps the Dragon Quest 7 remake are all much higher on my list. Remember that I don't really like tactical battles that much.
(It's also worth noting that I think I would prefer games of the same vintage as the original Dragon Quest for this purpose; that is, games on the NES or its contemporaries. Maybe sometime I'll try a version of Phantasy Star that isn't the GBA version?)
Hm, you responded, and I can tell you about all the games you've just named because I own them, and love most of them. I only pointed out Fire Emblem Awakening to you because it was good enough to break my stance on strategy games (don't care for them), and it partly fulfills your parameters. Then Fates ruined it, and I'm not touching FE again.
I don't know what remakes you're talking about for Etrian Odyssey. For the 3DS, there's IV and V, plus the Untold Stories, and the upcoming (to the US) series swansong, Nexus. The Untold Stories have a story mode in addition to classic mode. I would probably rank the games IV, Untold 2, V, Untold 1. (The Persona Q series is similar.)
Bravely Default was good, but I never finished it. (Consequently never played BD2, which is a sequel and will spoil BD right at the beginning.) If you completed everything in the demo, it rewarded you for each goal you achieved with stuff in the main game.
Legend of Legacy's leveling system is like FFII. Random stat gains depending on what you do in battle. Didn't you say no random stat gains? There were a lot of gimmicks I enjoyed, but the random stat gain got really tedious. (On a side note, The Alliance Alive was made by the same people, with its own set of enjoyable gimmicks, and random stat gain getting tedious.)
Finally, Dragon Quest 7... What can I say? We had this for PS in Japanese, and I never really liked it. Tried it again, and I'm pretty sure I stopped playing around the same point. I'm not even sure what it is, because what I've seen of the story is pretty interesting, and this version added stuff (mystery dungeon-like things similar to IX, grinder's paradise).
As for Phantasy Star... I have a vague recollection I played one of them when I was a kid. Dunno which one or even if it's the right series. The recent Switch rerelease looks nothing like what I remember.
If you're interested in Switch, there's Octopath Traveler. I've only played the original demo, but I know a lot of people who love it. Visually, it's like enhanced retro. Music excellent. Battle system similar to Bravely Default.
I think I can suggest something you may like: Lufia and the Fortress of Doom and its sequel (prequel?) for the SNES. Not many people seem to know this series, but I have fond memories.