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Sage103082: Thank you all. It will be worth it. Its a big change and I hate that im hurting him but for once in my life I need to put me first. I need to be happy and I cant go through my life so depressed and sad anymore.
Yes. That's the spirit. Being depressed sucks all the strength out of you. Life can now get better again!
Go Sage!
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Sage103082: Thank you all. It will be worth it. Its a big change and I hate that im hurting him but for once in my life I need to put me first. I need to be happy and I cant go through my life so depressed and sad anymore.
I hope it goes as well as these things ever can and that you are both able to be happy.
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Sage103082: Thank you all. It will be worth it. Its a big change and I hate that im hurting him but for once in my life I need to put me first. I need to be happy and I cant go through my life so depressed and sad anymore.
All the best for a swift and as hassle-free/painless as possible resolution, and to enjoying life again really soon.
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HypersomniacLive: All the best for a swift and as hassle-free/painless as possible resolution, and to enjoying life again really soon.
Yep.

Hopefully a resolution can be had without getting contentious. Get lawyers to draw up the paperwork, then leave them out of it for everything else (if possible). :P
Post edited April 02, 2016 by Krypsyn
Well, I don't know the relationship, but generally you can't be responsible for someone else's dependence/co-dependence on you, unless of course they're really your child or ward. Ultimately his feelings are going to be his own regardless of what you do.

Wish we could grab tea/coffee/whiskey and chat, but alas, we are kinda 3000 miles apart. I wish you well as you go through it, and stay strong. Lots of us are happy to listen if you ever need an ear (errr...eye) to chat or just to vent Hugs!.



As for mafia stuff, the Mystery of Grace of God Hospital has been solved, and the next person in the queue is up. At least tentatively, I'd like to sign up on the hosting list again. Learned some good lessons from the first run, and I'm sure I'll ignore them entirely for the future.
It's done? Already? I sort of didnt read any of it… been pretty busy.
Next up is Agent or flub, depends on if agent's real life has slowed down enough I think.
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bler144: As for mafia stuff, the Mystery of Grace of God Hospital has been solved, and the next person in the queue is up. At least tentatively, I'd like to sign up on the hosting list again. Learned some good lessons from the first run, and I'm sure I'll ignore them entirely for the future.
Year long waiting list, so just blame it on memory. ;)
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So, for this tourney thing, it looks like in hat ring, we have:
Hijack
Sage103i'mtoolazytotypetherest
trentolf
yogsloth

In the backup box, we have:
Dessimu, examining the quality of the rum
zeogold, wearing a fancy hat

I say we start collecting votes. My personal vote is for ol' yogsy.

If y'all like, I can keep a tally.
My vote is yogs or hijack
Tourney tally:
5 votes for yogsloth
3.5 votes for trentolf
2.5 votes for Hijack
(I counted trentolf's "either or" vote as a half vote for each, and counted RWarehall's mention for yogsloth as a half vote and everything Krypsyn and Drealmer voted as a half vote)
Post edited April 04, 2016 by zeogold
I'll vote Trent.
I just think his game will play better in a game where no one knows each other and those who advance are by a vote.
Although I think Yogsloth might be a more interesting choice and maybe that's what it might take to advance.
While Sage is a solid player, I'd take the above's experience first.
HijacK, I fear, could play great but might turn off enough people to lose a vote to advance
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RWarehall: Although I think Yogsloth might be a more interesting choice and maybe that's what it might take to advance.
Should I count this as a half-vote?
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RWarehall: Although I think Yogsloth might be a more interesting choice and maybe that's what it might take to advance.
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zeogold: Should I count this as a half-vote?
If you allow such, sure. Different styles, but both very capable.