AgentBirdnest: I teared up a little from reading that :'-/
Just... dammit. I'm so sorry for you and your other half. That is awful. In a way, I even feel a bit sorry for her dad, being such a miserable shit that he can't even enjoy the announcement of his grandchild.
I always say "as long as it's not hurting anyone, I have no problem with religion." And I really mean that, but the truth is, I don't know of any situations where it has not been hurting someone, in some way :-\
Thanks for sharing.
Thanks, Agent.
Empress_Owl: ... I'm so sorry about it... really sad. The dark and sad side of religions....
On another hand, it also reminds me my own story, even if the circumstances are a bit different ... my partner's mother also
really badly reacted when we announced her I was pregnant (of her first grandchild !). Like "no... impossible. Not
now. Not
me."... She reacted so selfishly... saying stuff, like she was not ready to be a grand mother, that it was not "logical" because my partner wasn't her oldest son... that it wasn't the right moment, because (...) well. She was so... angry ! My partner cried as well, he was shocked, and disappointed... I took my eldest owlet with me (only 3 years old ; he should have wondered what happened... and was about to leave their house, when she grabbed my sleeve to hold me back "ho no, you won't leave !"... ô__ô .... And then I just...yelled at her... i hadn't been that angry for a decade. I thought I could have hit her if she hadn't let me go.... Awesome family memories... !! Now she is totally fine with it and loves her grand daughter, but something is spoiled forever in her relationship with my partner and her... and since then, between my partner and me (he lost his self confidence, and was really depressed for 1,5 year at least. Things will never be the same now...
The importance of "first reactions"... she tried so hard to make up for it afterward... but it was too late.... :-\
I totally sympathize.... I wish things got better for your wife after that, but I doubt... ?
That's shocking. It amazes me how people who are supposed to love their children put their own feelings in front of the child's, even when that child is an adult trying to create their own family. I'm sorry it was so painful for all of you.