Posted September 18, 2023
I sympathize with many of these issues. I have two young kids and a very busy job, so have very little gaming time. I'm generally lucky if I can get through 4-5 games per year at the moment. Given my very scarce free time, I have definitely been veering away from very long 60+ hour RPGs in recent years and tending more towards shorter 15-20 hour games that I might actually have some chance of finishing.
I think the key is to prioritize, play what you feel like in the moment, and don't put yourself under any pressure to 'get through X number of games'. But then, I find the issue there is that I tend to start a lot of games and never finish them. So, what I have been doing lately is that I have 5-6 different genre categories and I allow myself to have one game active in each category at a time. That way, if I start playing an RPG and get bored of it, I can switch to a strategy instead. Then, after a few weeks, if I feel like playing an RPG again, I'll come back to the same RPG I was playing before. That way, I have a good amount of options and variety, but I also manage to finish the odd game occasionally :-)
I think the key is to prioritize, play what you feel like in the moment, and don't put yourself under any pressure to 'get through X number of games'. But then, I find the issue there is that I tend to start a lot of games and never finish them. So, what I have been doing lately is that I have 5-6 different genre categories and I allow myself to have one game active in each category at a time. That way, if I start playing an RPG and get bored of it, I can switch to a strategy instead. Then, after a few weeks, if I feel like playing an RPG again, I'll come back to the same RPG I was playing before. That way, I have a good amount of options and variety, but I also manage to finish the odd game occasionally :-)