Well, to be fair he gives you warning when you take too long to save Dynaheir. That said, if you're really attached to your save it's possible to reset global variables (via console or save editor) and give your party some more time.

I never used Minsc, also I spread the team responsibility across all the team members instead of a single hero.

If he goes hostile, charm or disable him..and run away if you don't want to kill him.

In BG1, travel takes a while. The recruitable NPCs also tend to have fairly short durations before they get angry at you for not working on their quest. If you recruit someone who has a specific goal, you will basically need to start working on that goal immediately. Otherwise you'll likely end up in the same situation again.

Once you complete their personal quest, they'll stick with you forever (unless you make them mad later). So work on their quest first, and explore after.

I've heard that if you do it within 10 days of picking him up you should be fine. Don't know if it's accurate though.

the onlu capeble fighter in my party is i forgot his name that stuttering guy and minsc. That emo elf is useless and my char isnt very good yet till he gets higher lvl he is better as a support (swarchbuckler) imoen is useless atm since she needs rest to cast spells again

I gotta disagree with the elf, hes an excellent ranged damager.

atm i only got chill touch colour spray is useless

I hate that emo elf. I like Minsc, but the Elf sucks. But then, I kept the Crazy Necromancer.

problem is my rep is 12

Ah. That explains why you don't have the Necro. Edwin is a good secondary. Do you know the trick of how to give up ONE Party member and not the other of the pair?

Have the member killed!.

thanks for the answer but i was askign myself if i dismiss the party member and then recruit him again does that work?

The way to get shot of one character without losing their partner is quite simple.

Find a building you'll never enter again then take control of the character you want to ditch and enter the building and close the door while leaving the rest of the group outside.

Once inside remove the unwanted party member and because they can't reach your character to complain (NPCs can't open doors on their own) their partner doesn't take offence and leave.

LoL, that's bloody game breaking*.

Getting one of your companion killed is more akin within RP perspective, because you know from the that kicking one would meaning loosing two...